One: domestic opposition
In fact, there are not many parents for this reason now, because many parents are very open-minded and think that their children can fall in love when they go to college, but there are still some parents who are afraid that their children will be cheated during college, so they are unwilling to let their children fall in love in college. There are also some parents who think that unreliable love in college will hurt their children, or that the boyfriend and girlfriend they find in college can't meet their own requirements, so they all ask their children not to fall in love.
Second: mentality
In junior high school and senior high school, teachers and parents are basically opposed to students falling in love. Some children still feel that they can't fall in love during their studies after they go to college, so they can't confess even if they meet the right person. They themselves can't accept falling in love while studying, and think it's not a good choice.
Three: environmental factors
In the second year of high school, China was basically divided into arts and sciences, which resulted in the phenomenon that there were more girls in liberal arts classes than in science classes. After graduating from high school, due to the restriction of liberal arts in many majors, the problem of imbalance between men and women has not been solved after college. The opposite sex that can be contacted originally is limited by arts and sciences, but it is still the case after college, and there are not enough people to contact, which also leads to college students not falling in love.
Four: the image problem
It is often said that the university is a cosmetic knife, but most children who just entered the university don't know how to dress up. The high incidence of love is freshman and sophomore, because there is no pressure of employment and examination at that time, and they can fall in love freely, but everyone says that their face value comes first. At that time, it was probably because many people's images were not good, so both men and women failed to look at each other. When the image of juniors and seniors is improved, they are facing graduation, and many people die of graduation.
Five: the college love time is short
In fact, few people in college love can go to the end. Many people have talked about several relationships in college, and they all feel inappropriate. After a long time, they talk about one, and they may feel exhausted again. Some people have been in love for a while, but they are still single most of the time.
In fact, although there are quite a lot of single people in college now, I still suggest you have a love affair in college, because at that time, you will not be opposed by your parents because you are too young, and you will not let love deteriorate because of material pursuit, and bravely pursue a relationship. This is university, and this is youth.