1. Being admitted to university is a turning point.

Entering a good university and an ordinary university will make your life different.

Some people may argue with me: I went to an ordinary university, but after graduation, I have to go to a key university for graduate students and doctors.

You're right. You are still working hard for a good university by doing this!

Work is the second turning point.

If you enter a world-class company and you work in a little-known company, there will be a world of difference.

So in college, besides learning your major well, I'm afraid you have to learn more privately, how to enter a big company and how to work in a well-known unit. It's a hundred times better than reading dead books.

3. Start a family.

Find the other half, get married, this is simply a second reincarnation. Good search, right search, that's like adding wings to a tiger. It's called flying with me. Wrong number, that's not flying solo, that's just suffering in hell. Not for a lifetime, not for a lifetime. Your family will be influenced by generations.

So, young man, if you can't find the ideal partner, it's definitely better to be alone all your life than to find someone irresponsibly.

Remember, remember!

Fourth, cultivate the next generation.

If you are not born, you will be born. With the next generation, we should put all our energy and thoughts on the education and training of the next generation. The method of training begins with "doing your own thing". Cultivate his/her survival ability and thinking ability.

You should also remember that as long as you have children, you are president. If the child doesn't succeed, you are a loser. The rest of my life, only pain!

One view, one view, please criticize and correct me.

Different people must have different answers. Let's talk about the common cases of monogamy first, and pick the most important one.

Graduation from high school is the first turning point in life. At this time, if you can work hard for three years and get into a good university, the starting point will be much higher than that of your peers.

University is the second turning point in life. In the meantime, you should study hard enough, but you should practice more. Basically, these years have laid the foundation for your later work. The most important thing for a university is to dabble and find out what you are good at and what you want to do.

Of course, if you still don't know your career direction after graduation, you will encounter the third turning point in your job. For some people, you will find a satisfactory job right after graduation; for others, you will meet a noble person in your work; for others, you will find your own interest and succeed in practice; for others, your career will improve after you get married or have children. In short, the situation is different, and it is not excluded that a person's career has several turning points.

In fact, if you can plan and work hard at all stages of your life, you may change your destiny. The key is not that everyone has the perseverance and patience to enrich every day.

But it's okay to waste some time. After all, we are all ordinary people, and ordinary life is also a dream life with many ups and downs.

Generally speaking, the questions are broad and there are too many things to answer. Some people are poor because of illness, some commit suicide for love, some people jump off a building because of bankruptcy, and some people win the lottery at once. . . Things are impermanent, and there are joys and sorrows every day. It is most important to keep a normal heart and cherish what you have in front of you.

A person's life is only a few decades from birth to death. But in this short time, we have been changing different roles. Every time you change roles, you will experience different things, and there will be different tests and bumps. Are you ready for the seven turning points in your life?

The first turning point: from primary school students to teenagers

13 years old, just the age of junior high school. You can stop playing carefree, your mind is mature enough to make choices, and you begin to understand the concept of hard work.

In order to rank every time, in order to further study in the future, I can't play heartlessly and waste a winter and summer vacation, so I began to work hard.

The second turning point: from teenager to adult

18 years old, you became an adult, left your hometown, left the shelter of your parents, came to a new city, and came to the place where your dreams began.

So your world is no longer just learning and further study, but more about life planning and ideals. You begin to seriously think about your future and take responsibility for yourself.

The third turning point: from one person to many people

At the age of 30, you will no longer be lonely, you will have a family and you will have children. You are no longer lonely, but you will also be under more pressure. I refuse to give up my career, take care of the life I want at home, and take care of the little life that just came to this world, and I can't wait to divide myself into several petals.

But the happiness I enjoy from it is so wonderful. Looking at the child sobbing and falling asleep, I feel that everything is worth it.

The fourth turning point: from full of fighting spirit to inadequate.

By this time, you may be 35 years old, which is an embarrassing age, especially for girls. At this time, you are still unwilling to be mediocre. You know how to dress yourself up, but you don't think you can compare with those girls who can wear light makeup because they are young. At this time, you don't want to miss any promotion opportunity, but there are more and more young and explosive newcomers, and the upper level can't retreat and the lower level is aggressive.

It is even more difficult for a woman who has just given birth to a child to come out to work after a long lactation period, as if she had been isolated from the world for half a century.

The fifth turning point: from rational judgment to mutual suspicion

You may be 40 years old by this time. After getting married for a certain period of time, some people say that the seven-year itch has some truth. At this time, the words between husband and wife are getting less and less, and there is little communication. So they began to doubt each other, whether the other party began to hate themselves and there was someone outside.

So there are more and more cracks, but because children don't know how to solve them.

The sixth turning point: from being a parent to being a child again

You may be about 50 years old at this time. If a person's life is counted as 100 years, it has been half a century since he reached the age of 50.

At this time, your parents are old and have been in the hospital countless times when they need to take care of them. Your clearest feelings are not many years away, and they can't leave you many more years.

One day, you became a child again and suddenly left your parents' arms. You should lie in front of the bed with tears in your eyes and send it away with disappointment and pain. Then, sigh how time flies.

The seventh turning point: more and more pessimistic about everything.

By this time, you may be over 70 years old and begin to lose your teeth. But unlike childhood, this time, you dropped it and never came back.

You begin to understand that your children and grandchildren are blessed by their own children and grandchildren. Just watch yourself get old. Your mind is as peaceful as your parents in the past. You don't care about gains and losses, don't force wealth, just want to live a good life.

From birth, people have decided to face these seven turning points, each of which must be experienced and endured. We came to this world naked, and we experienced it ourselves, experiencing joy, pain, hope and despair. I have tasted the ups and downs, and when I look back, I may sigh: Ah, so this is my life.

This process, in fact, is very difficult, but we know that only after these turning points can we count that we have not lived in vain.

I can't tell you how many turning points there are in a person's life. What is clear is that basically everyone knows that everyone's life trajectory is one step at a time. In addition, sometimes an idea, a word, everything can turn your life around. A person's life is long or short. Every day, there are many ideas, many words full of life philosophy and many stories. In these many, many years, who knows what made my life enter a turning point? So, I don't know, what I know, what others can see, what I don't know, my life is not over yet.

Everyone has to go through five different turning points. First, the age from birth to school is about five years old! The second is the period from primary school to university, and it is also the most ideal and yearning period for everyone. Third, stepping into the society after graduating from college is also the most critical period to test everyone's creation value to society, and it is also the period for everyone to harvest fruits. The fourth is to fall in love, get married and have children, and support the elderly. This is also a beautiful moment to enjoy family happiness, respect each other and love each other. Fifth, everyone should step into old age, and then recall the ups and downs of his life and talk about it.

As a girl who just graduated from college, the turning point I am experiencing at present is actually college! This is really an important turning point of fate, and the next one should be a fork in the road. 1 means to choose a job, including the place of work, state-owned enterprises or private enterprises. 2, it is to choose to get married. Marrying this man is another turning point that always kills life.

It should be three turning points. The turning point is actually the abbreviation of fate, and life is ups and downs. The first is the date of birth. When you were born in a castle, congratulations, you will never work hard in your life, and your labor income is bought with time. On the other hand, people who come to this world in rural areas will never get money after all their efforts. The second is the growth period. All parts of the body, including intelligence, mentality, thoughts, etc. , are consolidated before the age of twenty-five. At this time, the turning point of fate comes from the family atmosphere and environment. The last one is the doomed period. Destiny is determined by heaven, and luck is born in the ground. In other words, the beginning and end of life have long been set by God and cannot be changed. And many things, feelings and operations in life are completed and displayed in the world (on the ground). Believe it or not, all three turning points are incompatible with pseudoscience.

Two. One is marriage and the other is career.

There are countless turning points in life. At one moment, you may have a successful career, and at another moment, you may be poor. The world is changing all the time, and turning points are constantly appearing.

Thank you for inviting me!

How many turning points in life?

A: There are mainly three turning points. 1 Students will turn the corner in the future. 2 The turning point of work survival and development. Marriage and family life, old age chooses a turning point, doesn't it?