This is what the love expert in my university dormitory told me. She can handle two men at the same time and marry one of them after exposure. She is very good, and her appearance is really ugly (she is my good friend, but I also evaluate it objectively).

My own feeling of using this trick is that you exude attraction but don't have to be too obvious for him to find out that he likes him, that is to say, he thinks he just has a chance, and then finally makes him feel that he is chasing you instead of you. There is no skill here, you can only improvise. But if he is too explicit and ambiguous, it's best not to answer it, don't act happy or anything, and don't let him feel that he can get you easily. In fact, most of these words are just testing you. If you are serious, you will lose.

Attraction is feminine, so it's best to use it innocently, otherwise it's easy to have sex. Shyness, reserve and simplicity are all good performances. In a word, it is absolutely necessary for some people to make some changes. It doesn't change your nature, but makes your temperament more pleasing, so I don't agree with many sentences in the cartoons posted by lz above. What Yi Shu said is very reasonable and practical.

For example, this girl should have done it unintentionally. She is indifferent to her boyfriend. At that time, she was still in college. She was afraid that dating her boyfriend would affect her study, so she didn't study with her boyfriend at night or even tell her which classroom she was going to. Her boyfriend often flies between several teaching buildings at night, hoping to find her. It's infatuation Another classmate went out to travel, and she didn't bring her boyfriend (the boyfriend is not in their department). Later, her boyfriend couldn't stand it, so he broke up with her. But even after two or three years, even if he married a girlfriend who was a school girl, he still said that the girl was actually very nice and pure, and she shouldn't have broken up in the first place. By the way, I didn't go back to chase, but at least I can't forget it. )

In fact, this girl has gone too far, but getting along with her is a little self-centered, so it is good for a long-term relationship to let her boyfriend feel your concern.

2. Women are passive. If you use attractive tactics, but he doesn't take the bait, then you have to give up. I won't fall in love with a man who doesn't like me, but I have to make a good choice if I like him. So no matter how good he is, as long as you use attractive tactics but he doesn't come after you, you should stop pestering him. There are always people who don't like you. It is neither your fault nor his fault.

3. Men and women should be included together after getting along. I have been married for a long time, and I feel that two people still need skills to get along. As the dominant party in the family, women must make some changes. A 40-year-old colleague elder sister told me that she has seen many marriages, and the relationship between husband and wife has been very harmonious for more than ten years, not the beauty of a woman (how can it be beautiful in her 40 s? ), all women are good at praising their husbands, such as: Baby, look how delicious the meal cooked by Dad is! We ate it all; Honey, you really know how to take care of the baby. He likes you to tell him stories best, and I don't want him to tell them!

I think it makes sense. In fact, it is not easy for two people to get along all their lives, because everyone has ups and downs, but women's feelings are more tenacious and should play a leading role in family feelings. Praising her husband like this is actually asking them to share housework in disguise. The more people pay for their family, the more they pay attention to it. Are fathers who have been busy with their work and neglected to take care of their children better than fathers who have never missed their children's growth process and psychology at any stage?