1, learn psychological empathy;

Psychological empathy, in layman's terms, is to compare one's own heart with others'. General dormitory minor contradictions can be like this, and the problems will be solved step by step, because most college students are adults. After psychological transposition, if it is not a serious situation, it can generally be resolved;

2. Learn to take a step back and make a step forward;

If there is a contradiction, the parties should take a deep breath and it is best to avoid it for three minutes before dealing with the problem. Take a step back and broaden the horizon, and remember psychologically: suffering is a blessing, young man!

3. Dealing with contradictions by intermediaries;

If both parties are impulsive people, you can consider using friends or like-minded counselors and teachers to solve conflicts. As the saying goes, the authorities are fascinated, and the middleman can better solve the contradictions between the two sides;

4. Actively resolve conflicts;

Some students, especially after the conflict, are often unwilling to take the initiative to associate with each other because of anger. One is to take care of one's own face, and the other is to worry that the other party will not accept it and be embarrassed. In fact, as long as we grasp the opportunity, the unhappiness of both sides can be easily resolved. For example, when the other person is sick, take the initiative to visit; When the other party fails in the exam, take the initiative to persuade.