Appearance anxiety refers to many people's lack of confidence in their appearance under the environment of magnifying the value of their faces, which leads to anxiety. Nowadays, many college students are very concerned about their own values. They want peach hips and A4 waists, eat very little every day, and even feel hungry. Some people are dissatisfied with their five senses, pulling double eyelids, rhinoplasty, and even bone cutting and breast augmentation. These almost morbid pursuits of appearance have done some harm to college students' body and mind.
Appearance anxiety is widespread among college students today, which seriously affects their life and work, and also has a negative impact on the whole social atmosphere.
First of all, appearance anxiety can easily lead to college students' inferiority. College students are dissatisfied with their looks, mostly relying on genes, which are difficult to change for a while and easy to make college students feel inferior. Pay too much attention to your appearance and unconsciously compare with the people around you, so the more you compare, the more you feel that you can't do it, and the more you feel inferior.
Secondly, appearance anxiety also affects the personal development of college students. Some college students have social fears because of their appearance anxiety, and they are unwilling to meet and associate with others. If you pay too much attention to your appearance defects, it will be difficult to have the energy to deal with other things, while ignoring your improvement in all aspects. Some people, who are gifted at speaking, are afraid to go on stage because of their appearance, so that their talents are buried.
Finally, appearance anxiety is also easy to form an impetuous social atmosphere. College students pay too much attention to looks and think that good looks can get everything, and good jobs and good lives can be obtained through good looks, which is a wrong value. It is easy to cause impetuous social atmosphere, and everyone is eager for quick success. Without the spirit of down-to-earth and hard struggle, they just hope to succeed by changing their appearance. College students are a large group, and things on campus spread to the society, which also has a negative impact on the whole society.
Everyone loves beauty, but thinks that appearance is everything is morbid. The appearance anxiety of college students has its unavoidable reasons, and the social influence is also hard to blame.
Some college students don't know their ideas correctly. They mistakenly think that looks are very important, as if they are not good-looking and dare not go out to meet people. There are also some people who lack their professional knowledge and working ability and want to be opportunistic and gain recognition from others through their looks. This is crooked ways and should not be advocated.
College students' excessive concern about appearance is also influenced by social environment. In today's society, information circulation is convenient, and all kinds of social bad information spread through the network, affecting everyone. When you open Tik Tok, you will know that those beautiful and graceful young ladies have received more attention and praise on the Internet, and they are also promoting the concept of appearance first invisibly. Not to mention college students, some 13-or 14-year-old middle school students are also affected by this bad atmosphere. I used to have a girl in my class, who studied in general. In order to attract everyone's attention, she made up carefully in class. Childish face, but put on a delicate leather coat. This kind of dress is very similar to the online miss, so it is hard to say that it is not affected by the internet.
One-sided and exaggerated publicity of many beauty institutions in society has also contributed to the formation of college students' appearance anxiety. Some beauty agencies publicize some cases for profit. After plastic surgery, someone got a well-paid job and stepped onto the peak of his life. These cases have stimulated the impetuous heart of job-seeking college students, making them think that there is only one beauty between themselves and high-paying jobs, while ignoring the importance of their talents and knowledge. Even some beauty agencies advertise specifically for college students and move advertisements into the campus. Let college students who lack social experience mistakenly think that they can walk unimpeded in society if they look good.
In addition, the talent evaluation model in China is relatively simple. In the process of job hunting, the contact time between enterprise personnel and candidates is short, and it is difficult to show the inherent talents of job seekers in a short time, so appearance becomes a very important first impression. We also often see that some job seekers with poor ability but good looks are more likely to find jobs.
There are also some seemingly reasonable famous sayings on the Internet, "If you can't manage your own body well, what else can you manage?" It's nonsense to link people's external image with their own abilities! Try Dong Mingzhu and Ma Yun. Can their talent be measured by appearance? Modern scientific research points out that some people's obesity is caused by genes and has nothing to do with their own efforts.
Faced with the above problems, college students need to change their own ideas and the whole society needs to give correct guidance. College students should improve their aesthetics and correctly understand beauty, and change from focusing on external beauty to focusing on internal beauty. Social media should also publicize more positive energy and some beautiful deeds that touched people with morality and knowledge, such as Wang Liping who saved lives at a wedding banquet and Leng Jiahui who joined the army twice. They are so beautiful!
The government should also strengthen legislation to make beauty institutions bear certain social responsibilities, and should not mislead college students into excessive plastic surgery for their own interests and harm their health and mind.
Social enterprises should also improve the talent evaluation mechanism and examine the ability of college students in many aspects and dimensions, rather than "one-sided". Only a few minutes of interviews will determine the future work.
Our society is constantly developing, and people's consciousness level is also constantly improving. I believe that our college students will be able to get out of the predicament of appearance anxiety. It also appeals to people from all walks of life to convey positive values and create a good social atmosphere.