1, Sima Guang taught his son well.
Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister.
Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lessons of many sons of high officials and dignitaries in history who were decadent and decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons:' Virtue comes from thrift.' Thrift is for fame, luxury is for failure.
Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.
Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.
Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of Ningxia Province.
1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "officials don't get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to copy and burn it, and distributed the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said,' Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I will keep in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me.
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.
のののののののの300-word family story
A good family style is the first step to create a beautiful world, which affects a person's life trend.
My mother-in-law's tattoo, which moved from Meng Mu to San, has good family instructions, family rules and family style, which not only carries the hope of ancestors and generations, but also embodies the excellent national style of the Chinese nation!
My parents are farmers to the core. Although they have no clear family precepts, they set an example in their daily life, forming an invisible moral force and guiding me to break into this world alone.
My family was poor when I was a child. In that era when food and clothing could not be solved, there was too much happiness and happiness at home.
My father is simple and hardworking, loves reading, and tells us stories in his spare time.
My mother is honest, kind and thrifty. She likes singing and occasionally sings to us.
At that time, there were always songs and laughter in our dilapidated yard, which made those hard years very happy.
Whenever we encounter difficulties, my mother will say, "persistence is victory!" " " ; Father always shows masculinity: "Self-reliance and hard work. "Under the education of parents, we have five brothers and sisters and three college students. For a peasant family, we can imagine the economic difficulties we have suffered.
Looking back now, in those hurried years, all the difficulties were not impressed, leaving only a family's positive sunshine smile and a beautiful picture of unity and forge ahead.
"Three" short stories about celebrity family rules
1, Sima Guang taught his son well.
Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister.
Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health." He summed up the lessons of many sons of high officials and dignitaries in history who were decadent and decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons:' Virtue comes from thrift.' Thrift is for fame, luxury is for failure.
Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.
Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.
Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of Ningxia Province.
1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "officials don't get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to copy and burn it, and distributed the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said,' Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I will keep in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me.
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.
The godson of the president is independent.
Former US President Ronald Reagan is not only famous, but also rich. But he strictly requires children to stand on their own feet and never let them rely on their parents. After his son lost his job, he lived on welfare while looking for a job.
4. Lu Xun's godson let nature take its course
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, namely Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun whether to raise people or children, he replied decisively: "Raise people." As a result, mother and child are safe.
In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically carried out the idea of "how can we be fathers now" and made him "completely liberated". He said, "What I take for granted now is nothing but love." According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable". One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school anyway, and Lu Xun hit him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained, "It was loud during the war, but it didn't hurt."
A short story of celebrity family rules and instructions
Zeng Guofan has three sons and five daughters, and his youngest daughter Zeng Jifen lived to be 9 1 year old. 1875, once married into Niejia, Hunan. Zeng Guofan stipulated that each daughter's dowry should not exceed 200 taels of silver when she got married, as well as the homework list written by her father. Zeng Guofan wants to train his daughter to be a diligent housewife. In fact, her daughter did better than her father expected.
Qian Jibo is very strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen, he also gave him a beating. 1926 From the autumn to the following summer, Qian Jibo went north to Tsinghua to teach, but did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation. At this time, Qian Zhongshu is studying in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. Father came back to ask his homework, but Qian Zhongshu failed the exam and was beaten.
In life, Feng Zikai called going out to do things "boring". When he was with the children, he was full of joy, holding the children, feeding them, singing and teasing them, drawing and making them laugh, and being very close to them. On one occasion, Zhan Zhan, the eldest son, asked Feng Zikai to carry him to the station to buy bananas, "grabbing hands all over the floor before coming back". When he got home, he fell asleep on his father's shoulder, and the banana in his hand had long since disappeared. Feng Zikai sighed in the article "For My Children": "What admirable truth, nature and enthusiasm! The so-called virtues of silence, implication and profundity in the world are unnatural, morbid and false compared with you! "
Family instruction stories of celebrities in Wu dynasties
Zeng Guofan has a letter from Zeng Guofan
Family rules and instructions of celebrities in Lu
1, Hu Shi advocated "independence, sociability and emphasis on learning"
In the aspect of family education, although Hu Shi advocated "independence, sociability and emphasis on learning", he was also suspected of not knowing how to love children. 1929, Hu Shi wrote a letter to Hu Zuwang, hoping to cultivate him to live an independent, gregarious and hardworking life. The letter said, "What is that?" Class one should catch up with the top row of class one and school one should catch up with the top row of school one. Children with ambition should have the best homework, the best conduct and the best life.
Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.
Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. 1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "
3. Confucius' family precepts: Poetry is handed down from generation to generation.
Confucius' education for his son begins with being a man, not asking children to recite many words and do many questions correctly, but starting with poetry and courtesy. Why study poetry? Poetry comes from the heart and can express people's truest and sincere feelings, and beautiful words can make words better; Why do you want to learn etiquette? It is to educate children to be moral, polite, and live in harmony with others, so that children can be better people.
4. Lao She's family motto: Diligence is the foundation of being a man.
Lao She's way of educating children is still an example for people to learn. Mr. Lao She once said in a letter to his wife: "I think they know a few words roughly, can add and subtract, and know a little history is enough." As long as they are strong, they can learn a craft in the future and make a living without going to college. " If I see my daughter can dance and talk, I have the hope of becoming a star. My boy is as healthy as an ox, and I will be very happy! I hope my children can make a living by sweating. "
Mr. Lao She said so and did the same. On one occasion, Mr. Lao She's daughter only got 60 points in the math exam, which was a little unhappy, but Lao She comforted her daughter and said, "60 points is also very high! You are better than dad. I failed math when I was a child! " When my daughter asked Mr. Lao She what to do if she couldn't get into college, Mr. Lao She replied, "If you can't get into college, just stay at home and I'll teach you English.
5, Li Shimin family training: eat every meal, and then read the farmer.
Li Shimin, the second generation emperor of the Tang Dynasty, set a family motto, that is, "Remember the hardships of farmers when eating a meal at a time", that is, don't forget the hardships of farmers at every meal. Li Shimin, as a generation of emperors, never wasted money, treated others with an open mind, listened to opinions with an open mind, accepted talents, became a generation of wise kings, and realized the famous "rule of chastity" in history.
Stories of "Qi" celebrities who pay attention to family training and manage their families well
Ceng Zi, a sage or famous historian who ruled the family.
One day, Ceng Zi's wife was going to the market, and the child cried and asked to go with his mother. So his mother lied to him and said, "Good boy, wait for your mother at home and kill the pig for you when she comes back from the market." The child believed it and ran home happily, shouting, "There is meat to eat, there is meat to eat." The child stayed at home all day, and when his mother came back, friends from the village came to visit him, but he refused. He leaned against the wall, basking in the sun and imagining the taste of pork, not to mention how happy he was. In the evening, the child saw his mother come back from a distance. He ran forward to meet him in three steps and shouted, "mom, mom, kill pigs, kill pig oil, I'm going to die." Ceng Zi's wife said, "A pig can support our family's food for two or three months. How can you kill pigs at work? " The child cried with a wow. Ceng Zi heard it, and when he knew the truth, he didn't say anything. Turn around and go back to the house After a while, he came out with a kitchen knife. Ceng Zi's wife was frightened, because Ceng Zi was always very strict with the children, thinking that he would teach them a lesson, and she quickly put her arms around them. But Ceng Zi went straight to the pigsty. The wife asked inexplicably, "What are you doing in the pigsty with a kitchen knife?" Ceng Zi replied without thinking: "Kill the pig". The wife listened to a sloped smile: "But what pig should I kill in the New Year?" Ceng Zi said seriously, "Didn't you promise your child to kill pigs for him? Since you promised, you should do it. " The wife said, "I'm just lying to the children." Why should I talk to them seriously? " Ceng Zi said: "It is more important for children to keep their promises. Otherwise, isn't it obvious that children should lie like their parents? " ? Adults don't keep their words. What qualifications do you have to educate your children in the future? "
Sages or historical celebrities rule families-Cao Cao
In A.D. 196, Cao Cao moved Emperor Xian of Han Dynasty from Luoyang, the capital, to Xu (now Xuchang, Henan) and appointed Man Chong as Xu Ling. Cao Cao's cousin, Cao Hong's subordinates, broke the law many times in Manchong area, and Manchong arrested him according to law. Cao Hong wrote to Man Chong to intercede, but Man Chong ignored him. Cao Hong turned to Cao Cao again, trying to force Man Chong to release people with Cao Cao's will. Man Chong estimated that the prisoner was still alive and killed him at once. Cao Cao not only failed to investigate this, but praised Man Chong for his determination. Don't protect your loved ones.
Sages or Historical Celebrities Ruling the Family-Sima Guang
Sima Guang, a famous official and historian in the Northern Song Dynasty, regarded frugality as beauty all his life and hated extravagance. He also influenced his children with his cautious words and deeds, always warning them to understand the truth that "frugality means long time, long time means security, and security means stability." In the article "Training Thrift and Thrift", Sima Guang told his sons the truth of frugality. He put forward that "frugality is easy, luxury is difficult", which is a famous saying of governing the country.
Is Zhang a saint or a famous historian?
Zhang, the prime minister of the Qing Dynasty, and Ye, the assistant minister, were both from Tongcheng, Anhui. The two families live next door and both want to build a house. There is an argument about land. Mrs. Zhang wrote in Beijing, asking Prime Minister Zhang to intervene. Unexpectedly, after reading the letter, the prime minister immediately wrote a poem to persuade the old lady: "It's just for the wall to pick a book a thousand miles away. Why not let it walk three feet?" The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "Mrs. Zhang saw that the book was right and immediately took the initiative to retreat the wall by three feet. Ye Jia was deeply ashamed to see this scene, and immediately put the wall back three feet. In this way, a six-foot-wide roadway was formed between Zhang Ye's house and the courtyard wall of Zhang Ye's house, which became a famous six-foot alley. This story shows that if neighbors give and take, there is no problem that cannot be solved.
What are the stories about family style and family instruction in Ba?
1, Sima Guang taught his son well.
Sima Guang, whose real name is Shi Jun, is called Mr. Sushui. Northern Song Dynasty statesman, historian, official to prime minister. Although Sima Guang is in a high position, he is strict with his godson and attaches great importance to cultivating children's awareness of self-discipline and self-improvement. He wrote an article that has been handed down to this day, "frugality to show health."
He summed up the lesson that many sons of high officials and dignitaries in history were decadent because they could not stand on their own feet in the shadow of their ancestors, and warned his sons: "Virtue comes from thrift." "frugality is famous, extravagance is defeated."
Because of well-educated children, Sima Guang's sons are humble and polite, and have a successful life without relying on their father's power or family wealth. As a result, people all over the world know Rong Zhi, but they all know Sima's son.
Ji Hongchang didn't forget his father's instructions.
Ji Hongchang was born in Fugou, Henan. One of the leaders of the Chasui Anti-Japanese Coalition. He was a soldier in Feng Yuxiang's army in his early years. He was promoted to battalion commander and division commander because of his bravery and good fighting skills, and later served as commander of the Kuomintang and chairman of Ningxia Province.
1920, 25-year-old Ji Hongchang was a battalion commander at that time, and his father Ji Junting was seriously ill. He said to Ji Hongchang, who came to visit, "Being an official should be innocent and modest, and think more of the poor in the world. Being an official is not allowed to get rich. Otherwise, I can't sleep in the grave. " Ji Hongchang promised tearfully.
After Ji Hongchang's father died of illness, he wrote the words "Official is not allowed to get rich" on the porcelain bowl, and asked the ceramic factory to follow the example of batch firing and distribute the porcelain bowl to all officers and men. At the meeting to distribute porcelain bowls, he said, "Although I am Ji Hongchang, I will never oppress the people and plunder their wealth. I must bear in mind my father's teaching that being an official is not to make a fortune, but to do good for the poor in the world. Please supervise me. "
Ji Hongchang's words and deeds were consistent, and he was innocent and upright all his life, serving the people everywhere. When Japanese imperialism invaded China and the people were in dire straits, he opposed Chiang Kai-shek's surrender policy and rose up against Japan. Killed by Kuomintang reactionaries at the age of 39.
3. Lu Xun's godson let nature take its course
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, namely Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun whether to raise people or children, he replied decisively: "Raise people." As a result, mother and child are safe.
In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically carried out the idea of "how can we be fathers now" and made him "completely liberated". He said, "What I take for granted now is nothing but love."
According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable".
One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school anyway, and Lu Xun hit him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained, "It was loud during the war, but it didn't hurt."
Qian Jibo is very strict with his son.
Qian Jibo is a master of Chinese studies and the father of scholar and writer Qian Zhongshu. Qian Jibo is very strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen, he also gave him a beating. 1926 From the autumn to the following summer, Qian Jibo went north to Tsinghua to teach, but did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation.
At this time, Qian Zhongshu is studying in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. Father came back to ask his homework, but Qian Zhongshu failed the exam and was beaten.
1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to Tsinghua University Foreign Languages Department, Qian Jibo often wrote to him. A letter said, "Being a benevolent gentleman is more important than being a scholar."
Then a letter said: "Now foreign things say that your article is better than mine, and I am glad that you have learned from me;" However, let's just say that you have always been loyal to me and practiced for me. I am particularly comforted. "I hope Qian Zhongshu can be" indifferent to his ambition, quiet and far-reaching ". "I hope you are Zhuge Gong, Tao Yuanming; Unlike you, Hu Shizhi and Xu Zhimo ".
Qian Jibo kept his distance from the New Culture Movement at that time and devoted himself to studying Chinese studies. He warned Qian Zhongshu in this way because of a Confucian cultural standpoint.
5. Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-round.
Liang Qichao has nine children. Under his education and guidance, they all became experts in a certain field, and even produced the story of "one academician and three academicians". The three academicians are architect Liang Sicheng, archaeologist Liang Siyong and rocket control system expert Liang. Besides, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economist, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang is a librarian, and the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist.
Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-round, not only in study, in dealing with people, but also in financial management, current affairs and many other aspects, with a peaceful and equal attitude. After reading Liang Qichao's letters, you will understand that Liang Qichao's performance in educating children in A Letter to Children is exemplary.
Liang Qichao made no secret of his love when writing letters. In a letter of June 1927, he wrote: "You know, your father is the most emotional person, and his love for you is extremely enthusiastic. No matter how busy your homework is, you must write at least once every few months, and just a few words will tell you that you are safe. "
In studying, Liang Qichao didn't value diplomas at all, but emphasized laying a good foundation and mastering the "temperature". He said to Liang Sizhuang, "It doesn't matter if you don't get into college. A diploma is not a diploma. The thicker the wall, the better. " And teach children how to ask questions and learn-"there must always be two working cycles of' strong stew' and' slow stew' alternately."
At the same time, Liang Qichao emphasized the importance of responsibility. 1923, he wrote to his eldest daughter, Liang, saying, "No matter how big or small the cause in the world is, as long as you do your best within your responsibility, you are the first." Of course, Liang Rengong did not forget to praise his son-in-law and daughter-in-law while writing and teaching his children.
"Nine" excellent family precepts family style story composition about 300 words.
There is a saying like this: "There is no Fiona Fang without rules, which means that everything must have special rules, rules and practices, otherwise it will be impossible to succeed or make mistakes frequently. The rules here are family traditions and family precepts.
In our motherland, every family has a unique family style and family training. Of course, our family is no exception. Our family also has family traditions and family precepts. After all, what is the family style and family motto? Oh! Family style refers to the fashion passed down from generation to generation in the family, and family instruction refers to the words that parents teach their children and grandchildren to stay at home and study. It is my family style to respect the old and love the young, and to be kind to my neighbors. Respecting the elderly means respecting the elderly, and loving the young means caring for children younger than themselves. A friendly neighbor is to be friendly to neighbors, and neighbors should help each other and get along well. A good family style and cultivating the pillars of going abroad can make us take fewer detours. Family style should start from bit by bit in life and be cultivated slowly, which will become a habit. At that time, family style will be completely dissolved in your life. Such a bad family style will only make us stumble in life.
Honesty and trustworthiness, diligence and thrift are the family precepts of my family. Honesty and trustworthiness are what you said. Diligence and thrift love labor, and saving is not wasted. From Confucius' family instructions to Zhuge Liang's family instructions, almost every ancient family had family instructions. Accurately speaking, without good family style and family precepts, there will be no historical celebrities, and people will have no rules in doing things.