? When I was in college, the four-person dormitory that I just started living in as a freshman looked friendly and harmonious when I first arrived at school. In military training, classes and classes are United, and everyone enters and leaves the canteen together. Anyone who wants to move will collectively order takeout. So the love lasted only half a month, and then we started to act together. It's not that there is any contradiction between four people. Just get along for a long time, everyone will find a person who is close to their own life frequency, and will not be wronged by others, and will naturally be close to people who meet their own rhythm.
For example, if I like to sleep late, I naturally get closer to people who love to sleep late in the dormitory. We don't want to get up early for breakfast, but we pursue a rich brunch after waking up naturally. Even if we know it's bad for our health, so what? It's good that we feel happy. The other two, who are used to getting up early for geographical reasons, naturally become suitable partners and are inseparable every day. The seemingly harmonious combination of the two fell apart in just two months. Two roommates who got up early signed up for the same PE elective course together. One loves sports, and the other has no feeling for sports. In the final exam, students who are good at physical education dislike their roommates who are not good at physical education, procrastinate and eventually lose their temper. Two people came back crying, one wronged and the other more wronged.
? The atmosphere in the dormitory is very subtle. Two aggrieved roommates set up two discussion groups respectively, which dragged us into the group. That kind of embarrassment, caught in the middle, is not like a person, feels like a double agent, and it is super uncomfortable! What a big deal! This awkward atmosphere lasted until the end of the semester. Until the arrival of the new semester, everyone may have figured it out, so they left the two complaining groups there forever and started a seemingly harmonious and beautiful dormitory life.
? However, this is not the end! The point is that the roommate who gets up early and loves sports will offend two other people in the future. I don't remember how many discussion groups four people held and how many times they discussed behind their backs. Different people discuss each time, and different people participate in the discussion. Even so, until the third year of high school, we still maintained a very beautiful and harmonious friendship with outsiders.
? Some people always say that the relationship between girls' dormitories is complicated, but it is not unreasonable. Compared with most boys, the measurement of girls is really small. Coupled with the current social form, most girls are loved by their families and taken care of by men outside. Most girls are still used to being self-centered and feel that their feelings are the most important. I love to think about a small problem, and I am eager to find a feeling that understands my heart. I repeatedly stressed to others: I am right, she is wrong, and I am wronged. After all, such ideas are still the majority. Face-saving girls don't want to embarrass each other too much. They always keep the feeling of leaving after graduation, with a faint smile. Of course, what I said above is only a certain situation, and there are still many true feelings in our lives. I only hope that we can cherish the fate of this encounter, cherish friendship, love each other, tolerate each other, understand each other and make progress together.