Why do some people say that marriage is the springboard of life? Because many people in the real world are afraid of poverty, they are too eager to live a rich life, and they have been looked down upon for a long time because of poverty, so they hope that people with rich prices will make their lives look more glamorous. They know that with their own efforts, such a life will not come, or it will come very late, so they pin their hopes on marriage. As long as they choose a high-quality person to marry, all problems will be solved.
People with this mentality often lose more than they gain, because they simply don't know what love is. For those who truly understand love, they regard marriage as a challenge, and they will manage marriage wholeheartedly and still protect their families. In marriage, if you have a utilitarian mentality, even if the two sides really have feelings, it is easy to deteriorate, because he can accompany you to enjoy prosperity, but he can't accompany you through hardships. Such a marriage is soulless.
People who take marriage as a springboard will get a bad rebound, but they won't get what they want, because only by their own efforts can they really change their lives. Only by taking marriage as a challenge can we really rely on the power of marriage to make ourselves more and more beautiful.