Appropriately meet the wishes of girls. Girls' desire for independence can be realized in a harmonious atmosphere with the help of their parents. Parents should not only see the immature side of a girl, but also see her independent growth. Properly satisfying girls' desire for independence will improve girls' autonomy and self-confidence and help them grow up quickly.

2. Listen more and talk less.

Helping girls to respect independently as soon as possible is very important for the communication between parents and children. Listening is a kind of respect for children. This way is more conducive to equal communication with children and understanding their voices, while preaching is often superficial and difficult to penetrate into girls' hearts. ?

The desire for independence represents the enhancement of girls' independent consciousness. Parents should learn more about girls' independent consciousness through effective listening, so as to give girls more effective guidance.

Step 3 put down the shelf

As a "strategist" for girls' growth, girls with rebellious mentality in adolescence will inevitably have more resistance to their parents' authority. Therefore, when a girl is fighting for independence, her parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart.

4, lose your temper, the child is most afraid of discipline.

Whether parents are angry with their children, the consequences are very serious. When children grow up in an environment full of shouting and violence, they either become very weak, timid and introverted, or they become equally rude, like to solve problems with violence and have a distorted personality. The younger the child is, the longer it will be affected, and once it is formed, it will be difficult to change.

5, deliberately moved, the child's most painful way of discipline.

Why do you say that this way will make children suffer the most? The reason lies in the guilt and self-blame behind the move. Some parents like to say, "Are you good enough for your mother?" This sentence makes children feel that all bad results are caused by themselves, which leads to self-blame, which will always accompany their children to grow up. Imagine that if a child grows up with this mentality, he or she will suffer for life.