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1967 after her first love failed, San Mao went to Shirley College in Madrid to study abroad. There, San Mao met Jose, who is eight years younger than her. Jose soon fell in love with this free and easy oriental girl and solemnly asked her to wait for him for six years. After six years, he can finish college and military service, and then he can marry her. Sanmao was very moved, but Jose was too young and had just experienced emotional trauma, so he didn't dare to hold out too much hope. But Sanmao will always remember that day, Jose ran to the ground and waved to Sanmao to say goodbye to him. Tears almost fell, but he endured making faces at San Mao.
1972 ended, and San Mao, who suffered two emotional blows, returned to Madrid. Six years later, Jose grew up to be a brave man. He couldn't wait to get in touch with Sanmao. One night, San Mao described it as "suddenly a pair of arms hugged me from behind." I shuddered. When I opened my eyes, I saw Jose standing in front of me. I screamed with excitement ... he held me in circles and his long skirt danced. I screamed and hit him, but I couldn't help holding his face and kissing him. "
Beard and I wrote: "On the eve of my wedding, Beard asked me,' How much money do you want a husband to earn?' I replied:' If you don't like it, the multimillionaire won't marry. If you like it, the billionaire will marry. "After all, do you want to marry a rich man?" I sighed,' not necessarily, it depends on who I marry',' what about me?' "Enough to eat" "Have you eaten much? I quickly said,' Not much, not much, a little less', so I became the wife of bearded Jose. "Of course, it is actually impossible to decide her lifelong event because of these few conversations. However, these humorous dialogues and humorous intonation show the happy mood, cheerful personality and playful manner of a couple who have been in love for a long time and are about to get married.
Love that has stood the test of time has flourished since then, and the fate of life has closely linked people from two different countries and backgrounds. In the vast Sahara desert, this love blooms and bears fruit in happiness. We can see that San Mao's wandering can be said to be the most emotional. She has an infatuated person who loves herself deeply.
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Sanmao regards love as the pillar of life. San Mao once said, "My writing life is my love life, and my outlook on life is my outlook on love." Sanmao is a person who would rather suffer in the desert than stay in a bustling city, while Jose would rather be a gardener pruning branches than a clerk counting money in a bank. Their love met in an ordinary marriage and helped each other in times of poverty.
Sanmao is a romantic, passionate and talented woman. She has a natural romantic feeling. She can be obsessed with Picasso's oil paintings, draw a colorful world with a pile of ordinary stones, eat ice cream with Jose in winter, pick up junk everywhere, start from scratch, turn a humble hut into a beautiful palace, make the landlord jealous and raise the rent. She will also have a whim that the fans sent by her mother are the frozen rain on the mountain, and the delicious dried meat is China throat lozenge, which scares foreign husbands. ...
Marriage records the dramatic process of her hasty marriage with Jose in the desert. All kinds of ridiculous and solemn wedding ceremonies are intertwined. On the wedding night, my husband Jose gave Sanmao a bunch of camel skulls instead of flowers and roses, but it was undoubtedly a great surprise in Sanmao's eyes. I don't think there is a better gift than this. This tender memory seems to tell us that in love and marriage, as long as two hearts know each other, no matter how rough the details are, it is the most luxurious romance.
In Amateur Fisherman, Jose and I went to the seaside to catch fish in order to save money in our married life in the desert. This is an interesting story. Although I am full, I am lucky to be able to sell fish to make money. However, the ending of the story is unexpected. I earned more than 3000 yuan catching and selling fish, but I met Jose's boss in a restaurant and finally ate the fish I sold at the price of 12 times. When the next morning, Jose was glad that there was still an income from selling fish to get back, "I" suddenly found that the income I was about to get had been ruined by the soap bubbles in the washing machine. "Jose, the last fish also slipped away! We are going to eat potato cakes again. "
Because of this open-mindedness and humor, they feel that the poor desert can also become a paradise on earth, and trivial housework can also be full of poetry.
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Jose would rather lose sleep all night in order not to disturb Sanmao's writing. Sanmao prefers to eat only one meal every day for her husband's safety. However, people who are too happy are jealous of God, and Jose left forever in an accident. Jose left, and San Mao indulged in grief all day, but he was also glad: "Thank God, I am still alive today, and I am also suffering. If Jose is asked to live like this, then I will fight with God and come back to replace him. "
San Mao once said: "Love has the Zen meaning of Buddhism-you can't say it, you can't say it, and it's wrong to say it;" There are thousands of marriage and love patterns in the world. In my opinion, a woman is a piano. I met a famous artist to play, and it was a famous song. If ordinary people play it, they may play a pop song. If he can't play, I'm afraid it's not a song. "
San Mao is a man who values friendship and righteousness. Of course, she wants to find someone who can play her strange piano. If it weren't for Sanmao's inner desire and pursuit of eternal love experience, Sanmao might not have gone to the desert. San Mao himself said that it was Jose who insisted on going to Sahara, not himself. It was Jose who chose the desert. Sanmao just went to the desert for her persistent pursuit of her love concept to enjoy her love with Jose. But after only six years of this almost perfect life, Jose died unexpectedly.
After Jose's funeral, Sanmao left her second hometown because Sanmao didn't have the courage to face everything there again. Sanmao never returned to the desert, because one person was missing; I didn't go back to Taiwan Province Province, because Sanmao hasn't given up her experience, her heart hasn't settled down, and everything is not yet time. The experience of eternal love will not stop unless Sanmao's beating heart stops forever.
Sanmao still embarked on a wandering journey. After wandering, I also had several relationships, such as Gao Qiu, an Argentine, Alan, a Greek in segovia, and Wang Xige. However, they are just passers-by on Sanmao's wandering road. At the moment of meeting by chance, their eyes shone, but they passed by without leaving any disappointment. Sanmao still hasn't stopped wandering, because there is only one eternal love in Sanmao's soul, and that is Jose.
At the end of the article: Every year, 65438+10.4 is a day when everyone misses Sanmao. This free and easy woman ended her life with a silk stocking, but she still can't wait to see her Jose, for fear that he will be too anxious ... I wish them happiness in heaven.