1. Enhance the sense of independence: College life is an important stage of a person's growth. Children begin to be independent at this stage, and they may pay more attention to their studies, interests and friends, while ignoring communication with their parents.
2. Busy life rhythm: College life is busy, and students need to cope with the pressure of courses, club activities and part-time jobs. In this case, they may not have enough time and energy to keep close contact with their parents.
3. Differences in values and concepts: With the growth of age, children's values and concepts may change, and they may feel different from their parents' concepts, resulting in less communication.
4. Family tension: If the child has a tense relationship with his parents in high school, then this tension may continue to the university stage, leading to estrangement between the two sides.
5. Lack of effective communication skills: Some children may not have effective communication skills and do not know how to communicate with their parents in depth, which may also lead to alienation.
To improve this situation, parents can try the following methods:
1. Take the initiative to care about children's study and life, understand their needs and troubles, and give them support and encouragement.
2. Create more time with children, such as taking part in activities and traveling together to enhance mutual affection.
Learn to listen to children's voices, respect their views and choices, and don't interfere too much in their lives.
4. Be patient and understanding, and don't put too much pressure and expectation on children because of their mistakes and shortcomings.
5. Improve communication skills and learn to communicate effectively with children.