Full communication, I believe that most people are caring people.

Talk to your roommate about the troubles he has caused you or everyone. You must pay attention to communication skills. Don't hurt his pride. The most important thing is kindness and humility. Don't be hasty and don't shake your face. People should have self-esteem.

Once, our dormitory lights out, a classmate slept for a long time, and a roommate was still watching a movie outside. That classmate said directly, keep your voice down, it's too noisy. As a result, as you can guess, the roommate who watched the movie couldn't stand it. He said directly, when you were like this before, did I say anything about you?

In fact, the roommate who watched the movie also knew that he was doing something wrong, but he just couldn't stand the classmate's speech attitude. I think it would be much better if the classmate could walk over and say a few words calmly and let the classmate who watched the movie wear headphones. By the way, I didn't favor my roommate who was released outside in case someone sprayed me. )

Even if it is his fault, you should control your emotions and communicate calmly.

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Be tolerant and understanding, and be a generous person.

Some people will say that they have been calm and communicated countless times, and the other party just won't listen. What should I do?

To tell the truth, I can't help it. I'm afraid there is no other way but to fight violence with violence. However, this is not the best choice. If a dormitory looks up and doesn't see it, it will be very uncomfortable to live together. The most important thing is to avoid tragedy. There have been too many such tragedies in recent years. (But to be honest, it's bad luck to meet such a person. )

The only way left is tolerance and understanding, which I did in my dormitory during my four years in college.

He didn't want to clean the dormitory, so I cleaned it several times. In short, there is only a little space in the dormitory. He is noisy at night, so I put on my headphones and listen to the radio, and I may fall asleep. If he doesn't pour the instant noodles after eating, I will help him pour them and show him what kind of person he is. The more he despises me, the more motivated I am. Look at the results in n years.

In fact, when you leave school, you will encounter many unfair things. When you are powerless to change, you can only endure it and then turn it into motivation. People are doing it, and the sky is watching. God won't let a generous person down.

03

On the other hand, think of these as training your own ability, which is what I want to tell you most.

I endure, what I exercise is my endurance and endurance. In recent years, many college students are ready to die. I can't imagine what they were thinking at the moment they were preparing to commit suicide, but I think he will be heartbroken. Whatever the reason, I think what they lack is endurance and endurance.

If you quarrel, I will exercise my anti-interference ability and concentration. Maybe school is the last relatively quiet environment in your life. Life will be more noisy after you get married. What should you do? Why not take this opportunity to exercise yourself?

A lot of bad things, from another angle, you will be open-minded. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise. What you are experiencing now may be a fortune in the future. N years later, if you think again, you may be grateful.

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In fact, in the final analysis, the most fundamental way to jump out of an environment you don't like is that you have enough capital. Share a word I like very much, living like lime. The more people throw cold water on it, the more my life boils.