Sun Mei is a senior student. Gradually, Sun Mei's parents found that children pay more and more attention to dressing themselves. I didn't go home for two days until a month or two, and I spent at least half a day making up these two days. In Sun Mei's own words, enterprises now pay special attention to the image of employees. We are going to the society soon, but we can't be as old-fashioned as students. I have to get in touch with it quickly, pack myself in a fashionable way and prepare for finding a job in the future.

Since then, Sun Meihua has less and less energy in study, and is always busy with fitness, beauty and shopping. The homework is getting tighter and tighter, but the cost is getting bigger and bigger. The "clothes" all over the body are not famous brands. Sun Mei's parents said that her temper is getting worse and worse now, and she always talks back to them. The cost of living is more than twice as much as before, and she always complains that her parents are "too stingy" and does not support her future employment.

In the second half of senior three, Sun Mei finally has a "place to play". However, after more than two months of running around, her classmates have basically finished their work, and only she is still "waiting for news".

Now the employment pressure is great. As college students who are about to enter the society, they must have their own specialties. Although the employer is very concerned about the external image of employees, it is only given priority under the same conditions. It's hard to imagine that a person who doesn't get along well with his parents, who only cares about material enjoyment, can leave a good impression on the examiner; Similarly, there are reasons to doubt that he can really bring any benefits to a modern enterprise that emphasizes teamwork and pragmatism.

Campus etiquette school is a serious and lively, solemn and cordial, nervous and civilized place. This requires appropriate etiquette norms, which is not only the embodiment of teachers as teachers, but also the requirement for students to receive a good education. Therefore, school etiquette is not only a yardstick to measure the civilized quality of a school, but also a social window to show the quality of citizens in a country.

What I'm talking about here is the campus etiquette of the university.

First, the teacher etiquette teacher is known as the engineer of the human soul, shouldering the sacred responsibility of teaching and educating people and being a teacher. And the teacher's appearance is one of the important contents of the whole teacher's demeanor.

It can be said that the teacher's instrument quality has an important demonstration and influence on the formation of students' value standards and aesthetic standards.

Teachers should strictly demand themselves to do it for their students: a handsome appearance, a smiling face, a kind response and a pair of encouraging eyes; Treat each other with love.

Therefore, the appearance of teachers must meet two requirements: professional beauty, that is, clothes and hairstyles should be neat and generous, in line with the image of teachers; There must be charm, that is, temperament, steady and dignified manners, elegant posture and movements, and the inner cultivation of teachers. In this way, there are four points to note:

Dress neatly. No matter the quality of their clothes, whether they are old or new, whether they are high-end brands or not, as long as they are correct, decent, clean, buttoned and ironed up and down, they will give people a fresh and elegant feeling, make students feel respectable and amiable, and become an example for students invisibly.

Otherwise, if you are disheveled and even wear underwear, vest and slippers to class, you will leave a bad impression on those students who are slovenly and impolite.

Dress generously. This mainly means not to be too fashionable and gorgeous in clothes and hairstyles. Generally speaking, teachers' clothing style should be solemn, fresh and natural. Clothing colors should not be too bright and dazzling, but should be elegant and subtle.

I don't know whether to watch "Fashion Model" or attend class. It not only affects the teaching effect, but also has a bad influence.

Behave steadily and with dignity. A person's spiritual temperament must be reflected in his manners. As teachers, we should pay more attention to our every move.

Pay attention to public image. In public, you should pay attention to your words and deeds; In society, we should set an example of observing civilized norms, set an example for others, and don't let the "teachers" be embarrassed.

When teachers meet, they should generally take the initiative to greet them warmly. Meet in the morning and say "early"; When you meet in class, you can nod and smile at each other; Say goodbye to each other after work! This will make everyone feel that they live in a warm big family.

Young teachers get along with students, because they are about the same age, so they can be easy-going and greet students on their own initiative. This is good for getting along with students and teaching.

In short, as a teacher, on any occasion, we should consciously maintain a good appearance, be gentle and natural, and behave modestly and solemnly. Only in this way can we win students' love, trust and social respect.

Second, student etiquette Because college students are about to embark on the society, they are also students and are at the "intersection point" between society and schools. In view of this particularity, from the perspective of etiquette, it should be noted that:

Pay due attention to your image. Never think that your image is unimportant just because you are a student. You mainly face your classmates and teachers every day. If you pay too little attention to your own image, you will form a sloppy "deep" impression in the eyes of others over time, and once this impression is formed, it will be difficult to change. Moreover, once a bad habit is formed, it is difficult to change it for a while. Although not as demanding as office workers, as long as there are conditions, we must make our external image clean and tidy, without peculiar smell.

In daily study and life, it is advisable for girls not to wear makeup; In social entertainment activities, you can wear a light makeup. Make-up should be natural and light, and avoid too many artificial marks, which will lose the natural beauty of young people. Primary and secondary school students and girls don't even need light makeup. It is not suitable to wear high heels.

Boys are not allowed to wear vests, shorts and slippers to move outside.

Language should also be civilized. In today's society, swearing has become a habit and even fashion for many people, and it doesn't matter if you talk loudly in public places. College students are the elite of society, the hope of the nation and the future of the country. They should be positive and sunny, representing the advanced direction. Therefore, college students should first be civilized in language and say "bye-bye" loudly in swearing, swearing and public places.

Pay attention to interpersonal communication. When interacting with your teachers and classmates, don't think that they are all acquaintances and it doesn't matter. At least politeness and respect should not be lost at any time, even for those close to you. Because these reflect your achievements and your respect for others. There are also things like honesty and trustworthiness, which should be strictly done.

Communication should not be underestimated. When you are with your classmates and teachers, once you have anything, including things in your study and life, you should communicate with them in time and get understanding and support without violating the principles. You should never be a lone ranger like Ma Jiajue.

The primary task of students in school is to study. As soon as students step into the school gate, they are destined to shoulder the responsibilities entrusted by the times and the people. Therefore, we should establish lofty aspirations and lofty ideals, but this is not contradictory to developing good habits from a small place, but the same strain.

Proper dress, civilized manners, discipline and frugality are the minimum requirements for students, and good appearance is undoubtedly an important part.

What kind of appearance should students have?

A person's beauty and ugliness are generated by his parents, but his cultivation and temperament are acquired. Therefore, as students to maintain natural beauty and simple beauty, we should do the following:

Female students' hairstyles are suitable for braiding, cutting short hair and children's hair. This can give people a clear, lively and pure feeling. Shoulder hair is fine. Don't perm or dye your hair, so as not to look too old-fashioned and adult.

Boys should not have long hair or beards, which makes them look neat, clean and full of energy. Of course, it's much more open now, and there are all kinds of hairstyles. But no matter what hairstyle you run, you should give people masculinity. If it is not for the need of study, long hair and moustache will appear tired and depressed, and even give people an impression of flowing water.

Third, extracurricular etiquette students should generally take the initiative to greet the teacher first and say "good teacher" or "good teacher". Teachers should answer "good morning" or "good" with a smile.

Students should take the initiative to salute and say hello to the teacher; When you meet a teacher on a bus, boat or dock, even if there are many guests and people are crowded, students should let the teacher get on the bus and boat first.

We don't advocate students falling in love, but it is a common phenomenon for college students to fall in love. Even lovers must pay attention to their identity and image on campus, and never be too affectionate. Never say that this is a personal matter, and others have no right to interfere. Otherwise, it is not only inconsistent with the identity of students, but also violates the code of conduct of students and hurts the pure and simple atmosphere of the campus.

Students should take the initiative to say hello when they meet the teacher at the entrance and exit and go up and down the stairs. Please teachers go first. If you can't see the teacher, hide.

Fourth, the dormitory etiquette dormitory is the place where students live together, and nearly two-thirds of the students spend their time in the dormitory. Therefore, how life is here directly affects students' interpersonal relationship and study.

Dormitory is the home of students, and it is also the window to reflect students' spiritual civilization and etiquette, so we must pay special attention to it. Pay attention to the following etiquette:

Dormitory sanitation Keep the dormitory clean inside and outside, and often clean the dormitory, including floors, tables and chairs, cabinets, doors and windows, etc.

Bedding should be folded neatly and beautifully, and placed in a certain position. Mosquito nets should be hung, sheets should not be exposed from the bed, and other items should not be placed on the bed. Bedding should be kept clean and tidy.

Clothes, cups, lunch boxes, thermos bottles, etc. Should be placed in a unified and tidy place.

The changed dirty clothes, shoes and socks must be cleaned in time to avoid affecting the air quality in the dormitory for a long time.

Don't litter your important books, clothes, supplies, etc. But put them in your own cupboard.

Don't scribble and splash water inside and outside the dormitory, and keep it clean and tidy.

It is strictly forbidden to connect the power supply privately, use super-high power light bulbs and soldering irons, and use electric furnaces and water heaters.

It is forbidden to cook in the dormitory at any time.

It is forbidden to urinate anywhere in the dormitory area; If you live upstairs, it is forbidden to pour water downstairs.

Make a phone call in the dormitory to receive relatives, friends or outsiders, and only call in at the invitation of classmates or with the permission of other classmates in the room. After entering the door, you should take the initiative to say hello to other students. You can only sit on the upper bunk of the classmate who invited you, and you can't sit next to it. Don't touch other people's things, don't rummage through other people's things. Speak softly, for a short time, and don't sit for too long, so as not to affect the normal work and rest of other students.

When going to the dormitory of the opposite sex students, besides paying attention to the above requirements, you should also pay attention to greeting before entering the room and get permission from the students in the room before entering. Choose a good time, not when most students have to deal with life problems, and don't go after turning off the lights. And the conversation should be elegant and the stay time should be short.

When receiving relatives or outsiders, you should greet your classmates indoors before entering. After entering the room, you should introduce yourself to your classmates. If you are visiting relatives or friends of the opposite sex or outsiders, you should say hello first and explain the situation, and then go in when your roommate is ready. Roommates should also be polite to others, so as to respect visitors and classmates.

Don't leave people behind, let alone people with unknown details, so as to avoid problems.

There should be a limit to caring for each other and not interfering in other people's private affairs. If you are too enthusiastic about other people's private affairs, it may also lead to violations of other people's personal rights. If you interfere in other people's private affairs intentionally or unintentionally, it may also cause embarrassing consequences. The correct way is:

You can't read other people's diaries without permission. Some students don't get into the habit of packing things at any time, and even their diaries are casually placed on pillows or desks, or even opened there. Even in this case, other students should not browse privately under any excuse.

There are many people in the dormitory and many letters. You can't open or hide other people's letters privately.

Don't pry into the privacy of your classmates. Some students don't want to tell others about their family or anything, and they don't want to elaborate. This is personal privacy, and he has the right to keep it secret and should be respected. In collective life, every student should respect the privacy and personality of others, and don't ask others what they don't want to say.

When students have relatives and friends to visit and talk about some private matters, other students should avoid them properly. Never listen in silence, let alone interrupt or ask questions.

Students do not need to inquire and trace the source when they leave school to handle personal affairs, as long as they know that some students have asked for leave from the class teacher or the school.

Smoking, drinking and gambling are strictly prohibited. As a student, this is absolutely necessary.

5. Restaurant Etiquette Enter the restaurant in an orderly manner, and don't rush, run or crowd.

Line up to buy rice. Blockage should not happen to students.

If you have dinner with the teacher, please ask your elders to sit down first.

Don't complain about the food in front of the canteen staff. If necessary, you can suggest it in a euphemistic tone.

When sitting in a seat, your feet are naturally close together, your legs are naturally flat, your sitting posture is natural, and your back is straight.

Don't spit bones, thorns and other inedible things. You can put them in the tableware or throw them into other containers you have prepared.

When eating or drinking soup, swallow with a small mouth, shut up and chew, and try not to make a sound.

You should cherish food, not just leftovers. If there are inedible rice and vegetables, pour them into the designated swill bucket, not into the sink or sink.

You can't make any noise in the canteen.

Have dinner with teachers, classmates and familiar people, and then say "eat slowly" after eating.

6. Students' job-hunting etiquette and psychological preparation before the interview. Every job seeker hopes to leave a good impression on the examiner during the interview, thus increasing the possibility of admission. Therefore, knowing some job-hunting etiquette in advance, especially interview etiquette, is the first step for job seekers to succeed.

There is an old saying in China: "Know yourself and know yourself." The interview is like a tentative battle. The two sides of the battle are the examiner of the interview unit and myself who participated in the interview.

An attractive resume is a stepping stone to an interview. Therefore, how to write a "moving" resume has become the primary job of job seekers.

The text includes three parts:

, basic introduction.

, an overview of academic qualifications. Learning history, school awards, hobbies, social practice activities, positions, tasks, etc.

Work experience. Introduce the name, position, personal achievements, training or further study, job change, position promotion, etc. of the unit where I worked.

Don't write too complicated and wordy. You know, it only takes a few seconds for the first mate to read his resume.

In the United States, there are three noes on a resume: first, it must not exceed one page; Second, never write down anything unrelated to work, such as marital status, family status, race, etc. In order to avoid discrimination by business owners for other reasons; Third, never fill in salary, job seekers should recognize the role of resume, and resume is only for interview opportunities.

When writing your resume, always remember that you are selling yourself in a business environment, and try to use the language suitable for this environment, especially when explaining your past achievements and achievements. So, what kind of language is business language? Simply put, it is quantitative language. The more specific figures and facts in your resume, the more relevant you are to the position you are seeking, and the clearer and more explanatory your business value will be, which is much stronger than big, empty and slogan language.

Times are changing, and some job-hunting words are being eliminated. "I am confident in this job", "I have come with the purpose of learning" and "Please give me a chance to learn" and other beautiful words throw your opportunity into the trash can.

For inexperienced people, there is nothing but academic qualifications, and if they make mistakes, this opportunity will be lost, and it may not be made up in three to five years. Now there are more and more foreign-funded enterprises, and the qualities of modesty and conservatism required by traditional companies can no longer meet the demand.

Simply put, it is the principle that every vote on your resume will be successful. Make it clear that the company wants to know what benefits, contributions or achievements you can bring to the company, not to pay for your study.

The external image of dress etiquette candidates is the first impression to the examiner. External image will affect whether you can be hired to some extent. When interviewing, you must pay attention to it. Proper dress can make up for some shortcomings of your own conditions, establish your own unique temperament, and make you stand out.

Men should pay attention to the cleanliness of their faces, shave their beards and comb their hair neatly. Check the neckline and cuffs for traces of thread and dirt.

In spring, autumn and winter, it is best for men to wear formal clothes for interviews. Wear a long sleeve shirt and tie in summer. Don't wear short-sleeved shirts or casual shirts.

The tone of the suit should be mainly dark plain colors that give people a sense of stability, such as navy blue, blue, black and dark gray. The easiest choice to match a shirt is white. The tie is best made of silk, and the pattern on the tie can be selected according to your own hobbies, preferably monochrome, which can be matched with various suits and shirts. A tie with a monochrome background and regularly repeating dots is elegant and can also be used. A tie with diagonal stripes can show your shrewdness. The tie on the chest should reach the belt buckle. If you must use a tie clip, it should be sandwiched between the third and fourth buttons of the shirt.

Dark socks, black shoes. The belt should be matched with the suit, usually black. Men's dressing the Principle: Leather shoes, belts and purses are the same color, usually black.

Glasses should match your face. Wipe the lenses clean.

Don't put your pen in the pocket of your suit jacket. The pockets of a suit jacket are decorative.

Lady (1) clothing. The interview dress should be simple, generous and fit. Professional suit is the simplest and most suitable choice. Skirts should not be too long and untidy, but they should not be too short. Low-cut, tight-fitting clothes, overly fashionable and revealing clothes are not suitable for interviews. Thick fabrics such as tweed can be used for spring and autumn clothes, and thin fabrics such as silk can be used in summer. The texture of clothes should not be too thin and transparent. Thin and transparent has a feeling of instability and solemnity. Colors should show a youthful and elegant style. Use color to express your taste and temperament. It is not advisable to wear eye-catching colors.

Silk stockings are called women's second skin, so they must be worn, and they are transparent and the color similar to skin color is the best. Always check for disconnection and damage. You'd better take a spare pair.

Wear leather shoes with simple style and without too much decoration. The heel should not be too high, and the color is the same as that of the suit. If you don't know how to match colors, the easiest way is to wear black leather shoes. Don't wear sandals during the interview.

If you are used to carrying a bag with you, the bag should not be too big, the styles can be varied, and the color should match the color of the clothes.

5 light makeup. If you use perfume, use a fresh and elegant fragrance, comb your hair neatly, and don't let bangs on your forehead exceed your eyebrows.

⑥ When wearing accessories, you should pay attention to the matching with the overall clothing, and it is best to be simple.

Before you leave, you'd better check it from head to toe to see whether the buttons and zippers are fastened, whether the collars and cuffs are damaged, whether the clothes are wrinkled and whether the shoes are clean and shiny.

Talking etiquette Staring at each other When talking to each other, you should face up to the part between each other's eyebrows and eyes and make eye contact with each other, even if there are others next to you. If you dare not look directly at each other, people will think that you are shy, afraid and even think that you are "hiding something".

Learning to listen to a good conversation is based on "listening". Listening is a very important etiquette. If you don't listen, you can't answer the examiner's questions well.

Listening is showing interest in what the other person is saying. During the interview, every word of the examiner can be said to be very important. You should concentrate, listen carefully and remember the main points of the speaker's speech.

When listening to each other, it is natural to show respect. This is the performance of a cultured and polite person. What to do: remember the speaker's name.

The body leans slightly towards the speaker, indicating the importance attached to the speaker.

Look at the speaker and smile.

Respond appropriately, such as nodding, smiling knowingly and asking related questions.

Pay attention to your body language. Body language refers to people's actions and manners, including posture, posture, gestures and facial expressions. It is a natural expression of a person's cultivation, education and basic attitude towards others.

When interviewing, you must avoid these practices:

Drag the chair and make a loud noise.

Sit down in the chair.

Sitting in a chair, shoulders drooping and chest bulging.

A man lying and sitting with his legs crossed; Women's knees apart, legs apart, etc. , will give people the feeling of impudence and lack of education.

Sitting in a chair, people's feet or legs will tremble or shake consciously or unconsciously.

It's important to be confident in the interview. This confidence can be shown by your gait. A confident gait should be that the center of gravity of the body leans forward slightly, the chest is lifted and the abdomen is closed, the upper body remains upright, the hands naturally swing back and forth, the steps should be light and steady, and the eyes should look straight ahead. The pace should be smooth, natural and rhythmic. It should be noted that if there are company employees or receptionists, you should not walk in front of them, but should walk diagonally behind them, with a distance of about one meter.

As the saying goes, "Silence is better than sound". Use your silent and professional attitude to show recruiters that "I am the most suitable candidate".