It is said that your girlfriend is attracted, and you can show her your personal strengths, such as singing and dancing, which are the key points to attract girls. Then it is necessary to have personal charm, which is reflected in your emotional intelligence, three views, demeanor and so on. Maybe girls will be attracted to you because of what you say and do.
Second, grasp the state.
When chasing a girl, the best state should be hazy and unobtrusive. She thinks you may be more interested in her, but you don't express your feelings directly. She doesn't refuse all your actions, and even leaves you some opportunities for contact. This state is the best. Don't rush to confess just because you like her. The other person will feel that your feelings are too heavy before being attracted to you, or will choose to stay away.
Third, learn to chat.
Chatting is a difficult problem. Not knowing how to chat with girls is a common problem for many men. There is no topic with girls, and I don't know what to say. Some people even get blacked out when chatting. Let's talk about the correct way to open a chat with girls, and sort out the following points for you: Keep a sense of no demand:
The sense of need will make boys lose their rationality, and girls will have a strong sense of oppression. When you have a strong sense of demand for something, you will fight for it with the mentality of "you must get this thing". Once you don't get this thing, you lose your reason. The same is true with girls. Don't chat with the mentality of "chasing her", but chat with the mentality of "friends" and adjust the relationship according to the relationship status. This feeling will be completely different.
4. But it should be noted that when pursuing, both she and you are free, and you have not given each other a promise, that is, I can only have you in my eyes, because I am chasing you, or I cannot be pursued by others, because I am being chased by you.
Everyone can change the object of pursuit at any time, and can also accept the pursuit of others.