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How to solve the social phobia of newly graduated college students?
How to solve the social phobia of newly graduated college students?

Find topics for different groups of people

1. Talking about games/toys with children

2. Talk to the elderly about health/the past.

3. Talk about daily life/recent situation with friends.

4. Talk to relatives about parents' shortcomings.

5. Talk about benefits with the poor.

6. Talk to subordinates about the future/motivation.

7. Discuss quality/assurance with customers.

8. Talk to the master about learning.

9. Talk to the channel about high commission.

10. Talk to the boss about the model/project.

Talk about details with people you don't know very well.

Core essentials: praise details+ask questions

Get each other's favor quickly (after all, no one will refuse to praise themselves.

People), but also can quickly open the topic with strangers.

1, for unfamiliar girls

(1) Wow, honey, your earrings are really beautiful! Where did you buy it?

This dress suits you very well, especially your skin. It's very nice. Can you share the store where you buy clothes?

Your newly permed hair looks beautiful. What kind of curly hair is this?

2. For unfamiliar boys

(1) Wow, you have a great figure. Do you usually have fitness habits?

(2) Your speech is very logical. What books do you usually read?

Your suit fits in three dimensions. Is it specially made?

Refuse to be embarrassed and learn to turn it upside down.

1, praise, hidden in criticism.

Form a humorous contrast effect and let others have a profound influence on you.

(1) said to the girl: Can you not sit next to me? How can I concentrate on my work with such a beautiful woman beside me?

(2) To the restaurant owner: I will never come again. Your food is delicious and affordable. I'm afraid if you keep eating like this, you'll eat your whole family.

2. praise and criticize.

Criticism in an ironic way and humor can make him think deeply.

(1) Countdown of children's grades

Good, at least your grades still have a lot of room for improvement.

(2) meet someone who likes to pretend to be B.

I don't know anything about Mount Tai, but I didn't expect an expert to be with me.

(3) people who have met.

Direct reply: "It is normal for you to think so."

Humorous response

1, girlfriends say "thank you" to you √ back: feelings are weak.

2. My boyfriend said "thank you" √ back: Don't thank me, marry me.

3. Bai Piao Party says "thank you" to you.

√ Back: Nothing, that's what you should be thankful for.

4. The boy who chases you says "thank you"

√ Back: You're welcome, this is what beautiful women should do.

5. A good friend says "thank you" to you.

√ Back: You're welcome. Make me a cow and a horse in my next life.

6. The leader says to you, "Thank you"

√ Answer: Yes, I am at your service at any time.

7. The man you don't like says "thank you"

√ Return: You don't have to do it yourself.