14. Do not buy | 2011-12-1518: 41:52.
1, before they get married, they want this and that, a house, a car and a ticket, and they also ask men to be able to make money, but it doesn't matter how capable they are (after they get married, they also ask men to make money to support their families and keep their income for a rainy day). In fact, it inherited the tradition that men are superior to women in feudal society, and wanted to marry themselves like a rich woman, and then the other party raised themselves like a rich woman. Moreover, since the other party asked himself to be the other party's family, he "took" away, so the other party certainly had to give his family a large bride price. Just like buying and selling things, this is essentially a continuation of feudal social traditions.
2. After getting married, it's the other way around, putting down the cover of feudalism and starting to wave the stick of feminism. They married the man's house, but they went to their parents' house every so often and went out to make money by themselves. When they earn money, they do not support their families, but keep the money for themselves. They refused to do housework and began to ask men and women to do housework equally. They even simply put all the housework at home on the man, claiming that they should take more care of them. Those behaviors that require women to do housework are old feudalism. When he divorced, he continued the so-called feminist thought and asked the man to give himself his house, car and children's tickets, claiming that this was because of the so-called "gender equity" in modern society.
This is really strange! Are they pursuing feudal male chauvinism or feminism?
If they pursue feudalism, they can. They can ask for a lot of bride price and ask the man to have a house, but at the same time, since they are married to the man's house, they must honestly undertake all the housework inside and outside the man's house, take care of their mother-in-law and father-in-law, and can't even question the man's behavior of marrying mistresses, so they can't just go to her house at ordinary times.
If they pursue modern feminism and demand equality between men and women, so be it. They can ask for the equal distribution of housework, and they can ask for the care of the court when they divorce, but they are not qualified to ask for this when they get married, because both men and women are equal, and no one owes anyone and no one should serve anyone. Men and women are equal, so housework should be equal, and all household expenses should be equal, including the payment for the house and car should be borne by both parties. The woman has no reason to ask the man to bear all the expenses and enjoy his own income, which is unfair.
Therefore, in comparison, if we think deeply, we will find that they actually don't care whether they are male or female, feudal or modern, but how to maximize their power and minimize their obligations. They take out the parts of feudalism and feminism that are most beneficial to them, discard the parts that are unfavorable to them, and take them out to defend their exploitation of others. So in the final analysis, what they really care about is how to get something for nothing, which is completely different from the original intention of feminism.
Therefore, women's rights in China are pseudo-women's rights. They are unwilling to stand on their own feet and undertake obligations, but they demand that all rights belong to them. In essence, it is the flowery rhetoric of the exploiter.
Nowadays, women in China are more depraved than men.