1, self-protection

Everyone has a subconscious mind for self-protection. A man who loves to lie may have suffered or offended others by telling the truth, or it may be that telling the truth is really bad for him. At this time, men will choose to lie, but in fact, men do not agree with lying.

But sometimes it's a subconscious lie. However, a lie needs more lies, so a man who loves to lie is also under great psychological pressure. Of course, you can't decide by lying.

There is a big problem with a person's morality.

Step 2 please women

During their love, many girls have heard the lies told by their boyfriends. For example, most of his promises will not be fulfilled, but women are more emotional and think that a man who doesn't honor his promises doesn't love her.

Meanwhile, women like to listen to some sweet words. Men have to say something unrealistic to please each other, which is what women think is a lie, thus forming an infinite loop. Men please women with lies, but women don't.

I like men who lie.

3. expedient measures

Men's thinking is different from women's. A man has his principles, but in order to solve the contradiction between two people as soon as possible, he will lie, which is an expedient measure in his view, because when men and women quarrel, the two people have different solutions, which will easily worsen the contradiction, so men have to.

Lying is used to dispel women's anger. Many women are addicted to it, but after learning that men lie, another round of war begins.

Lying is a disease after all;

Is lying a disease or a interpersonal skill? Lying is a interpersonal skill in most cases in life. According to a study by Robert F. demont, a psychologist at the University of Massachusetts, 60% people will lie two or three times during a conversation of 10 minutes. Men and women lie almost as often, but he found an interesting difference between men and women: women tend to lie to please each other, while men tend to brag and lie.

He also found that liars are usually more popular. The result of this study seems to be contrary to social moral common sense, but it is not difficult to be confirmed in life. Former US President Bill Clinton publicly lied to the people of the whole country in front of TV, but his popularity is unparalleled. In western society, it is well known that politicians lie, but no politician publicly admits that he is a liar.

The study found that Jeff Hancock, a psychologist at Cornell University, found that a quarter of college students' interpersonal communication contains lies, with the most frequent lies on the phone and the least lies in emails. The reason is simple: e-mails leave records, and scammers don't like to leave records, so they often lie on the phone.

This quarter is done in daily life, and it is natural that the proportion of lying on some purposeful occasions rises sharply.