He is the first college student in the village. When he was a child, he was smart, obedient and got excellent grades. He is a good student every year. But 1995, after graduation, he gave up his job because he was dissatisfied with it, and gradually became lazy to do nothing or cook. He can talk clearly about current political events, but he starved himself to death. Not history, but reality. This young man named Wang Xiaolin was found dead at home two days ago. At the beginning, in order to let him go to college, my mother worked hard, my sister dropped out of school early, and even my father was afraid of delaying his study and didn't tell him. Originally, he should have pinned his family's dream of getting rid of poverty and hardship and turning over happiness, but in the end it became a drag on his family and even a nightmare. Mother avoided leaving, and my sister expressed her grief behind him, hoping only for the afterlife. "He is a working man and can stand on his own feet." What made Wang Xiaolin refuse to make a living by himself? Is it because of mental illness or mental illness, or just because of laziness? The parties have gone, and it is difficult to confirm without scientific research. However, it may be meaningful to observe it as a case of the increasingly common phenomenon of "otaku, otaku and neet" in society. From "home" to starvation, the probability of occurrence is naturally small. More "otaku" and "neet" people usually live in cities, leading their own narrow lives smoothly or depressingly. Some people actively look for jobs, while others gradually get used to "dwelling in a humble abode" and "eating", and even regard it as a new way of social existence. A survey released not long ago shows that 65% of families in China have the phenomenon of "providing for the aged", and about 30% of them are basically supported by their parents. Such figures, as well as the social problems implicated behind them, should not be underestimated. In the People's Daily's online tune about young people's "gnawing at the old" behavior, more than half of netizens think that "employment is difficult and life pressure is great" and "gnawing at the old" is understandable; Only 30% of netizens are against gnawing at the old and think that young people should stand on their own feet. Young people's high recognition and understanding of "old" is even more worrying. The "home" of the neet people who lack income and independent living ability has obvious negative energy and negative mentality. A young netizen said: "If you stay at home for too long, you will have the idea that life is meaningless." In this network age of alienation and lack of trust, it will be more difficult to "stay at home" for a long time if you want to reintegrate into society. We should take seriously the phenomena of "otaku and otaku" and "gnawing at the old", not just because of the material consideration of "sitting in an empty seat". In the past 30 years, the rapid economic development, the accumulation of social wealth and the family planning policy of "having only one good child" in China have provided a feasible material basis for the younger generation to "live on their laurels" to some extent. After the expansion of university enrollment, it is difficult to find employment, and the income of young people can't compare with the soaring cost of living, so they have to "live on their laurels". Except for the case of Rainbow Kobayashi, who was born in a poor peasant family, most people have no short-term "starvation" crisis. However, a country with such a large proportion of "neets" must make long-term and sustained efforts in creating jobs and providing a fair and open employment competition environment, so that as many young people as possible can see the hope of self-reliance and even life independence and success after leaving campus, and have the prospect of development. At the same time, we should also deeply reflect on our education: why do so many "smart", "obedient" and "three good" children grow up, but after more than ten or twenty years of education, they ignore the people they love, lack the sense of responsibility and the courage to work hard, and can't become adults?