? Friends who have seen Fortress Besieged will think that Tang Xiaofu is the only woman that Fang Hung-chien really loved. Tang Xiaofu was attracted by Fang Hung-chien. On the one hand, he felt a little silly in his own eyes, and on the other hand, he felt a little silly in Tang Xiaofu's eyes. Both of them are stupid and cute in front of each other, and they get each other's love because of their stupidity, although bloom failed. If Fang Hung-chien had defended himself at that time, he would have scolded him if he didn't answer the phone, waited in the rain for one more second and let go of their so-called self-esteem ... Unfortunately, everything was if, passed away and never came back.
? Fang fell in love with Tang. Tang was just angry with Sue. Sue wouldn't let her like it, but she did. It's just that she didn't expect to impress each other and was a little soft-hearted. Besides, it was a nominal first love. Tang himself knows that she and Fang are not suitable, so leaving is also a kind of rejection. It seems that accidental misunderstanding is also their necessity.
Tang Xiaofu, an elf girl. In Fang Hung-chien's mind, it was a flawless piece of jade, with a fairy flavor. Sue, who is dignified on the surface, is a silly and selfish old man. Fang Hung-chien is a cowardly but playful, simple and real man.
Fang Hung-chien rejected Su, but Su provoked Tang in front of him. In the face-to-face struggle between Fu Xiao and Hung-chien, Hung-chien felt that he had suffered, which was worrying. Tang Xiaofu said: The person I love, I want to occupy his life. Before meeting me, he had no past, leaving me blank ... Mr. Fang, I just hope you have a bright future!
? "Leave some blanks for me"-this is probably the wish of most girls. Tang is stubborn on the surface, fragile inside, weak but helpless. Two loving hearts are so vulnerable in front of face that people can't help but think of Tagore's The Farthest Distance:
The furthest distance in the world
Not life and death.
It's that I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
The furthest distance in the world
It's not that I stand in front of you and you don't know that I love you.
But knowing that we love each other but can't be together.
The furthest distance in the world
Knowing that we love each other, we can't be together.
But obviously can't resist this yearning.
And pretend not to care about you on purpose.
The furthest distance in the world
It's not that you can't resist this yearning.
And pretend to put you in my heart.
But with your indifferent heart to the person who loves you.
Dig a deep ditch that can't be crossed.
? In real life, we may all have been stubborn or cowardly. Perhaps, if you are brave, love will be at your fingertips. But things are so coincidental and so realistic. When love triumphed over hate, Fu Xiao left the window and asked the servant to call Hung-chien upstairs in the heavy rain. Hung-chien thought that Fu Xiao didn't want to see him again and left sadly ... Fu Xiao couldn't bear to call Hung-chien again, but Hung-chien thought that Su had scolded him and hung up again. ...
? Tang Xiaofu combines rigidity with softness, and what is more admirable is her bravery! People will be angry when they feel cheated, but they rarely have great courage to recover after the impulse. Fu Xiao didn't dig an insurmountable deep ditch between her and her lover because she felt cheated. I don't think many men here don't like this beautiful, fairy-like woman. But the plot of the novel often runs counter to the good wishes of the audience (readers) ...
? Fu Xiao's bravery was wrongly turned back, but it was doomed that Hung-chien would not be loved by Fu Xiao! His cowardice ruined the most beautiful throb of his life! If he stands in the rain for a while ... if ... there is no if in the dictionary of love. Hung-chien's cowardice is not only manifested in his feelings for Sue, but also in his dependence on her husband in life, which fully shows his inferiority of idleness and lack of sense of responsibility. Fang's family background is not very different from Tang's, but it is because of his cowardice that he retreats step by step. On skill, you can't compare with Zhao; On means, it can't compare with Li; In terms of skill, you can't compare with Cao. He is also interesting, but useless. Women like interesting men, but prefer to choose safe men.
? Tang Xiaofu is the only true love of Fang Hung-chien, the four women in the book. It was because of the failure of his love with Tang Xiaofu that he accepted the employment of San Lv University. When Fang Hung-chien was rejected by her, his body and mind were numb. What does Tang Xiaofu expect at this time? She asked Fang Hung-chien to defend himself. She said to herself, "Why don't you defend yourself? I will believe you. "Finally, Tang Xiaofu didn't say these words, and Fang Hung-chien left. On the other side of the road outside the door, Fang Hung-chien "stood unresponsive". She thought that if he didn't leave for a minute, he would "ignore the joke and ask someone to invite him back", but at this time, he just left. After she left, she called the Zhou family again and again to ask if Fang Hung-chien had gone back. She really liked him, too, but the tragedy happened like this. This is a very beautiful love. After all, women are emotional. Anything is possible if he is willing to turn back. Only courageous women need to rely on men's tolerance and support.
? Perhaps ethics has separated them, which seems a bit interesting. If they really get married, they may live a happy and beautiful life, but in most cases there will be tragedies like those of Fang Hung-chien and Sun Roujia. If their love is not deep enough to resist all external forces, and the differences in personality also determine that they will not be happy. If Fang is not generous enough, he will feel inferior in front of Tang, and the fuse has long been buried. Tang is young and willful, and even more intolerable. Love is only a moment, but life is eternal. People are always pursuing what they can't get, and once they get it, they will feel tired. A treasure, I have seen too much, but that's all!
? Many people have regrets when reading Fortress Besieged, because they scolded Fang but didn't give Fang Hung-chien a chance to defend himself, because Fang Hung-chien refused to stay for a few seconds, and because he didn't even know whose phone number was, he swore rudely. There are not so many "ifs" in life, and happiness is to be won and grasped by ourselves.
? Because of the shortcomings, this leads to an interesting question. If Fang Hung-chien marries Tang Xiaofu, will the outcome be different? First of all, as far as two of a kind is concerned, Tang Xiaofu has an absolute advantage. Although both Fang and Tang had their own love stories before they fell in love, they were deeply attracted to each other as soon as they met. Needless to say, Fang Hung-chien is Tang Xiaofu, but she is also deeply attached to Fang Hung-chien, but she just doesn't know it. This charm can be read in many places in the book.
Interested readers can read more. Comparatively speaking, although Fang Hung-chien was a little tempted by Sun Roujia, his feelings were higher than Tang Xiaofu's. Love is the best lubricant in life, which can at least guarantee freshness for a period of time. If they get married, it is conceivable that the "life span" of marriage will not be as short as that of Fang and Sun.
? Secondly, in terms of interpersonal relationship, Sun Roujia is obviously not tactful enough, especially when she goes to her husband's family after marriage. She doesn't know anything about the world, doesn't like her in-laws and hates her sons and nephews, so the whole interpersonal relationship is in crisis. And Tang Xiaofu although this aspect of the ink is not much, but to deal with my cousin and others, certainly more than Sun Roujia. I don't know the taste of mother-in-law. Let's make the taste of good sister-in-law first. This is especially important for newly married women.
? Third, the complementarity of characters. Tang Xiaofu seems to be strong, but in fact, he lacks a definite view, which is typical of being rigid outside and soft inside. On the other hand, although Sun Roujia looks casual, she is strong everywhere, very opinionated and often insincere. For Fang Hung-chien, a poor educated youth, a woman who is just outside and soft inside is actually more suitable.
? Finally, Tang Xiaofu's great advantage in appearance, and Tang Xiaofu's novels were written according to the level of the goddess at that time. Mr. Jiang Yang once wrote such a sentence: "Tang Xiaofu is obviously the author's favorite figure and doesn't want to marry her to Fang Hung-chien." To put it bluntly, Tang Xiaofu is the embodiment of the perfect lover in Qian Zhongshu's mind, which is still so attractive to the author, not to mention the characters in the book. It is unknown whether Fang Hung-chien will be willing to make great concessions and sacrifices for a goddess wife.
? How would you choose such an interesting hypothesis? Do you believe in love or love?