First, the concept of interpersonal communication
Nowadays, college students come from all over the country, and everyone's lifestyle and behavior are different. So many people live in a dormitory and a school, and all kinds of interpersonal disputes are inevitable. Interpersonal relationship is a necessary condition for the survival and development of adults, not a question of liking interpersonal relationship. Many times, we have to live in peace with many people we don't like. Even if you don't like it to the extreme, you should be harmonious on the surface.
If a person wants to develop for a long time, he must have a good interpersonal environment, that is to say, he can have a harmonious interpersonal relationship with the people around him. Since entering the university, we have to face such a kind of interpersonal relationship, and establish and maintain good interpersonal relationships with teachers, classmates and friends around us. Adults mainly handle interpersonal relationships by themselves. Therefore, it is very important for future development to dare to challenge the improvement of interpersonal skills during college.
Second, fully understand yourself.
In college life, every student has to face a very severe challenge, that is, how to objectively understand and evaluate himself and the situation he is facing now. Some time ago, there was a term called "mediocrity of college students", which means that some students were basically excellent in all aspects before going to college, but after going to college, they felt that they were mediocre and not as prominent as junior high school.
Before going to college, a friend who interviewed the reporter himself was the first in the whole school in both class and level, and of course he was admitted to a key university without any suspense. But when I was a freshman, because all the students in my class were excellent students from all over the country, he was no longer the so-called excellent student, which led to an unexpected failure in the final exam. Therefore, we must fully understand ourselves and ourselves during college.
Third, environmental adaptability.
Although I am still at school, I should know that there is a difference between school and society after all. From graduation to employment, just like the weaning period of a baby, there will always be times when it doesn't adapt. Entering the workplace requires independence, unlike being cared for and protected by parents and teachers at school. In some news, some enterprises will show a cold attitude towards fresh graduates. One of the important reasons is that fresh graduates have not adapted to the social environment, lack work experience and work experience, and their roles have changed for a long time.
To make the workplace develop smoothly, you need your adaptability to adapt to the social environment. For example, adjust the rules of life, don't be late and leave early as in school, improve your psychological awareness of your position as soon as possible, and establish good interpersonal relationships in the company. Therefore, the ability to adapt to the environment should be exercised from the time of school and face the challenge directly.
Facing challenges directly is the attitude of contemporary college students. If you don't back down when you encounter difficulties, you can succeed. Come on!