Judging from the tidbits, it is a type of idol drama that both boys and girls like to watch. Men are rich and beautiful, and women are beautiful and confused.
This setting is basically similar to the painting style written by Princess Meng Qiqi of Versailles, who exploded some time ago.
I don't reject idol dramas. Everyone likes the combination of handsome men and beautiful women. Apart from the plot, at least the picture is pleasing to the eye.
Besides, who hasn't fantasized that she is a princess living on earth, and there will be a handsome and rich man to save us from fire and water?
But looking at the title of this much-hyped new drama, Love from Marriage, I can't help feeling a little speechless.
Are all idol dramas so difficult to bring forth the new?
From marriage to love, it is no problem to take these words out alone, but together, my old aunt who is about to get married can't help shivering.
For the boys and girls who have just arrived at "Seeds of Love" and still have beautiful and pure fantasies about love and marriage, there should be nothing more romantic than falling in love from marriage.
It makes me feel that this is the place where I am extremely afraid to think. Such a drama, such an export of ideas, will make those innocent boys and girls who don't have much life experience go astray.
It will make them feel that it is nothing to fall in love after marriage. Don't you think the hero and heroine in the play finally live happily together?
Once the order of love and marriage is reversed, free love is meaningless and worthless.
Besides, getting married before falling in love is nothing new. Look at the old society. When that marriage needs parents' orders and matchmakers' words, don't they always get married first and then fall in love?
What is even more exaggerated is that many young people don't know who they are going to marry until the hijab is lifted.
I still remember when I was a child, my grandmother recalled the process of getting married with my grandfather. She summed up three words: take a chance.
At that time, I always felt very angry when I heard grandma say these things. I think this practice is not conducive to family happiness at all.
What if the luck is not so good? Marry a person I hate, marry a person who feels uncomfortable when I see him, then the rest of my life will be ruined, won't it?
Love freedom, marriage autonomy, seemingly simple eight words, but it took hundreds of years to write these eight words.
It is the sacrifices of several generations that have brought us today's free air.
On the other hand, in order to be unconventional, we began to preach that marriage before love is as sweet as it is now, and we can live a good life. It is better to have no freedom of marriage in the first place.
The reason why idol drama will live happily anyway is because the protagonist has a halo. As long as the screenwriter opens his golden finger, it is only a matter of minutes for the protagonist to become the president of the United States.
And what we have to face is reality.
Not only idol dramas, but also many online novels like to write like this. On the way, they were suddenly taken away by men in black as the wives of the president, so there are hundreds of stories in Table 2.
Even got married for no reason. I haven't seen my husband for a month. Don't ask why. When I ask, big people are crazy and cool.
Every time I see such a story, my blood pressure can't help rising. Girl, won't you run away after being kidnapped?
What if your mysterious husband is a pockmarked Wang who lacks arms and legs, is five big and three thick, and doesn't know a few words? Isn't this a flower inserted in cow dung?
Even if he looks like a person, what if he is a devil wears Prada with a beast face? What if he's a psycho killer or a serial killer?
Just like the dentist in Everyone Is Hell, he looks very handsome, but actually happy ever after.
This hypothetical case alone can write 30 thousand words.
Not afraid of 10 thousand, just afraid of one thousand. If you meet any of them unfortunately, it is the beginning of tragedy.
I have a very good friend at school, and I have little contact with him later.
Because not long after graduation, she got married in a flash and married someone she had known for less than three months.
Last year, my former classmates organized a small-scale party. Unexpectedly, I saw her again at that class reunion.
However, at the age of 27 or 28, she should be in her prime, but she is aging at a speed visible to the naked eye.
I don't like dressing up when I study. My hair hangs casually behind my head and I wear loose and outdated clothes. The whole person also appears embarrassed.
From her appearance alone, I know that she should have a bad life in recent years.
After the age of 25, a woman's happiness can actually be seen at a glance. People who have been devastated by life cannot hide their vicissitudes.
Later, I learned from others that she divorced after less than a year of marriage, and her husband was drunk and violent and often beat her.
Her husband's family didn't protect her, and her parents-in-law ignored her son and let her be bullied.
She couldn't bear it anymore and called the police.
But the other side is a difficult character. The divorce lawsuit lasted for a long time, and even ran to her house with a kitchen knife, threatening her to divorce and killing her whole family.
Now that she is divorced and her daughter follows her, it is still quite difficult for her to support her daughter alone.
It is a fact that an unhappy marriage will soon exhaust one's energy.
If she is not so impulsive, even if she can get along more, she should avoid repeating her later fate.
After all, a man with a bad record can't hide for a lifetime even if he hides for a while.
The fox will show its tail one day. All we have to do is wait patiently.
That's why I advise you not to get married before you fall in love. It's better not to get married overnight, because once you lose the bet, the price we have to pay is huge.
The most important thing in life is actually a few years. If the waves are lost, there is no way to start all over again.
It's better to think carefully from the beginning than to regret it later. Even if we can't blend in perfectly and make no mistakes, we can minimize the probability of meeting inappropriate people.
Some people may say that flash marriage also has a happy life and a beautiful life.
Yes, just like some people just bought a lottery ticket and won the first prize. They all need luck.
There is only one choice in life, and you have to give it to luck, which you can't control at all?
You can't be so naive after you are eighteen.
We will regret our careful selection, not to mention buying a blind box and hoping for a miracle.
It's just like those who keep saying it's useless to go to college. People who haven't been to college, 100 people have a great person, and they say it's useless to go to college.
For those who have gone to college, there is a loser in 100 people. They say, you see, going to college is useless.
It is sophistry to take individuals as examples without considering the overall data.
I know that fast-food love is respected now. In this fast-paced era, no matter what you do, it seems that as long as you are slow, you will fall behind.
But everything can be pursued quickly, except marriage.
Be sure to polish your eyes before you get married, know where the other person's personality is at its lowest point, and make a decision after weighing it repeatedly.
Divorce is a very easy thing, it can be completed in ten minutes, but psychological trauma can not be healed in ten minutes.
Adequate pre-marital knowledge is not a guarantee for entering a happy marriage, but it is a foolish choice to enter a marriage without knowing anything.
Borrow a sentence from a netizen in Zhihu:
"Flash marriage is nothing, I can accept it.
But once the novelty is over, all the problems and shortcomings will be infinitely magnified. At that time, the knife will be fatal. "
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