1: What should I do, dear? The living expenses are running out this month, and the poor are going to jump off the building. Yesterday, my classmates took 1000 yuan from me, which is my only living expenses! What shall we do? You see, there are still ten days. Why don't I go to your place to rub it? You see, I often buy you breakfast, too!
If she agrees, you can go to have breakfast and get it over with. Don't be blindly enthusiastic in the future. If she doesn't want to, you can take this opportunity to stop serving her breakfast and express your dissatisfaction to her to see if she is embarrassed.
Dear, last week, Xiao Zhang bought me a breakfast and spent six yuan. I have no change now. Please lend me six yuan first so that I can pay him back. I finally met him, so I have to pay him back quickly. Sorry to spend other people's money.
If she is a sensible person, at least say a few words politely, and you have bought her a lot, you can pick it up and ask her to buy it for you. If she plays dumb, you will think that 200 yuan has gone down the drain. It is worthwhile to know a person's character with this money. You are too weak.
3: Didn't she always let you bring it? You can always forget on purpose, right? If she blames you, you pretend to be wronged by her: "Honey, why did I bring you breakfast for a month?" Forget it if you don't pay. You blame me for forgetting twice? " Look how thick-skinned she is. It's a good thing she's embarrassed not to pay you back. If you catch a lot of such statements, the key is what you think. If you want to be a good person and don't want to suffer, don't blame others for spending your money.
Therefore, when you get along with people in the workplace, you must have your own principles and bottom line. Frankly speaking, what you have done is not worthy of sympathy at all. 200 yuan for 20 breakfasts, even once 10 yuan. So many times, you haven't said a word yourself, and you can't blame others for treating you like a big head.
5: What about money and work? Does that mean you can bully openly?
In the workplace, there are many such honest people. They work hard without temper, and they are not afraid of being dirty or tired when they work. It's really easy to use, but sometimes they get angry when they see being bullied and dare not speak.
6. The same is true in life. Everyone should grasp a' good' degree. Agree to others' demands without restrictions, or it is' good'! Therefore, family tragedies, divorce between husband and wife, often the root of the problem lies in the vague understanding of the boundary of' good'.
In short, a good man can't do it in the workplace.