Generally speaking, self-control emphasizes people's subjective initiative, while others emphasize optimistic factors.

Remember, it's more emphasis, it's hum, both are indispensable, both are indispensable.

A kind of problem that is easy to appear is that both sides are using a lot of examples to prove their correctness, but in fact they are just talking to themselves. For example, two girls are chatting.

I saw a skirt in Xidan yesterday. Very good.

B: I bought one that day. It looks good, too.

What I saw was red, but it was a little expensive.

I like my hairstyle very much.

……

This is a normal chat, but after careful analysis, two people are simply talking about themselves. Although everyone is talking in a gentle skirt, it would be nice if the debate was like this. Not female thinking, but male thinking with strong logic and purpose.

I may be a little vague, but this is really how I feel recently. If you have specific questions about the debate, please ask again.