What is the biggest pit?

The pit of thinking.

A while ago, I happened to talk to the mother of an 8-year-old child about educating her children.

. As soon as I heard it, I felt sorry for the child. 996 can still work. That kid is really 007. All kinds of classes are full, the child looks ill, lacks exercise and has too little sunshine.

One problem is that we must study hard, otherwise there will be no way out in the future. I will ask you what is the path planned for your child?

It's still that.

Go to school well, find a good job, find a good job and marry a good wife.

. Then she finished.

I can help her make up for the first half of her life, then have another baby, continue to be a chicken, continue to go to school and find a good job.

Cycle.

The pit of this kind of thinking is that you can't use the experience of the past 20 years to help children cope with today's and future society.

Path dependence, all passed on to children.

Too many parents "succeed" and "improve their class" because of some experiences, so they must let their children go their own way intact.

For so many years, ta didn't look at the world, didn't study, and knew nothing about what was happening in society.

The earliest college students can be section chiefs when they come up, and later college students are also the goals of enterprises. Now college students are unemployed after graduation.

If you don't want to lose your job, give me a piece of paper. 985,211,PhD candidate for postgraduate study.

Roll to death.

Yes, have you ever thought about what will happen even if the quantity wins?

In other words, when you are desperately stepping on others to climb the ladder, you should not take a look first. Where is the ladder inclined?

Let me get this straight. Many parents are using their successful experiences to ruin their children.

In the past, the speed of social circulation was very slow, so there was the illusion that it was difficult for companies to close down, because at that time it was all around enterprises.

Now the company must be all right, do you believe it?

Even if there is no problem in the company, if you enter a big factory, will you stand in the company, adjust the business line and abolish the whole department?

And according to my observation, there are two kinds of people who can earn an annual salary of 654.38+0 million.

One is high flyers. This kind of people are extremely busy and anxious, flying around under the pressure of performance, working overtime every day, and never dare to turn off their mobile phones. And their academic qualifications and experiences are surprising to you.

To be such a person, you must be the king of the land, especially with a threshold, which is rare and fatal.

As a parent, I just want my children to have no time to study in the first half of their lives and no time to work in the second half. Then regenerate my grandson and let ta repeat this life.

You can play with eggs. .

There is another person around me who can earn100W.

The threshold for these people is much lower. There is no need for invincible education. It depends on whether you can satisfy the market. When you satisfy the market, the market will give you money, as simple as that.

If there are too few people earning 6,543,800+in Flash Gao, it is pitiful and tiring.

Then many people around me earned 654.38+0 million by doing something by themselves.

There are too many people who do decoration, equipment, dentistry, photography, delivery and live broadcast.

Now it is these small bosses who have the opportunity to get together and take a trip to catch a fish.

Don't look down on the small boss. What the small boss does is vertical, and he doesn't need to be responsible for so many people. He just needs to satisfy the market, and then he will get better and better with his work, and gradually he won't need to work so hard to open up new customers.

The more you live, the better. Very comfortable. I have time to take care of my family and my health.

You are an executive, you are under great pressure, and your diet is irregular. It's hard to say what's really wrong with you in the future and whether the money you earn can fill the hole in your work body.

Therefore, the big pit dug by the older generation for young people is really a pit of thinking. Use your successful experience in those years to hand it over to young people to deal with the present society.

Now this society is not a society lacking everything.

It is generally felt that our country now has everything, the Red Sea in quantity and the Blue Ocean in quality.

Boutique is the way out.

Moreover, social cooperation used to be based on companies, but now it is based on individuals.

This is the fundamental source of social progress, requiring higher efficiency, lower cost and better experience.

Our neighbor Japan, their development path is worth learning from.

A simple reason why things in Japan are good, of good quality and people-oriented is that they are rolled up earlier. If things are not done well, there is no way out.

So now, for most ordinary people, there are still some ways out, that is, to do fine work in those small areas.

When all the details in all fields are occupied, there is really no chance.

So, how to educate children? First, a major campaign must be launched. With your strength and energy, everything will be more efficient. Don't you find that many times you are lazy? To put it bluntly, it is because of poor health.

Second, give ta time to try, to discover and know herself. As parents, it is necessary to help children find interests and find things that ta likes to be good at.

The sooner this matter, the better.

Third, the thinking problem we are talking about is not only at the work level, but also at the emotional level. What young people are faced with is to resolutely crack down when their feelings are developing, but just entering the society, they are asked to get married and have children quickly. I don't give you a chance to develop your relationship at all. Therefore, knowledgeable parents should encourage their children to contact more people and fall in love, so that their children's feelings can develop and become independent. It's like being vaccinated. Otherwise, the child will die if he is slightly unhappy, or he will be cut off when he goes out.

Fourth, find good teachers for children and encourage them to soak the best people and ideas.