To know what she really needs, although we are adults and parents, we are different in age from her and there is a generation gap. Some things need to be put in the other's shoes, but in the face of some things, we still have to help them make decisions, but we need to ask her personal opinion, and at the same time, we should see our responsibilities clearly and don't give her some of our ideas. If she is in adolescence, she should pay more attention.