Family education is a kind of education that has the deepest influence on a person's life, directly or indirectly affecting the realization of a person's life goals. Parents should respect their children's language and behavior, establish friendly relations with their children, and always listen to their voices when educating junior high school children.

Methods of educating junior high school students

First, set an example. Parents should first form good habits. Set an example for children. Because everything parents say and do is the enlightenment of their children. Provide a learning atmosphere for children, and read or study with them. Over time, gradually they naturally feel that their parents attach importance to learning, know how they should study, and understand that they are not studying for anyone.

Second, respect children. What is respect? We might as well sit down and communicate with our children at an appropriate time, let them speak freely, and provide us with some information to let us know their joys and sorrows. Sometimes when there are differences of opinion, as parents, we will seriously consider whether our children's opinions are more perfect and appropriate than ours. If so, you should give up your own opinions and boldly adopt the children's opinions. This is an exercise of children's cognitive judgment, which not only respects children, but also shortens the gap between the two generations.

Third, persevere. Enlighten and guide children to do everything in the long run. Some children like this today and that tomorrow. They have a wide range of interests, but they give up when they encounter setbacks. Parents at this time, don't scold and laugh like a storm. We should patiently find out the ins and outs of the matter and what made the child shrink back. Help? Help him solve the problem, explain the disadvantages of giving up halfway, encourage the child to get up from where he fell, and give him a relaxed and happy mood to complete his unfinished business.

Fourth, close contact. At this time, parents should get in touch with the teacher in time to understand the child's learning situation. A child can't be smooth sailing in all aspects of his study, and there are ebbs and flows at any time, but he just doesn't know where he missed. After the two sides get in touch, they will correct and make up for the shortcomings in time, help the children tide over the difficulties and lay a solid foundation.

Parents' methods of educating their children 1. Respect children.

Respect children's independence, treat children as a complete and independent individual, and give them a certain "psychological space". Children entering junior high school will no longer listen to their parents as they did when they were children. Parents should respect their children's correct opinions, discuss things with their children, gradually give them more independent power, and of course put forward higher requirements for their children. But one thing to remember: parents have "absolute rights" in some things, equality is only relative, and children should be aware of inviolable principles and insurmountable boundaries.

Establish friendly relations

Establish a friendly and trusting relationship and try to avoid conflicts with children. Junior high school children are prone to impulsive emotions. In the communication with children, sometimes due to improper methods and words or partial hearing and belief, children have rebellious psychology, which leads to resistance and hinders communication. Therefore, educating children should use persuasion to let them express their inner feelings and thoughts. If there is a language conflict, parents must be calm and take appropriate measures to stop the quarrel immediately. It will be much better to enlighten your children when both sides calm down.

Step 3 Listen to your child's voice

It is a very important way for parents to understand their children's feelings by listening to them. Don't care if the child's words are reasonable or valuable. Put down your parents' airs and listen to them immediately no matter how busy you are. Don't wait until you are free. Talking with children provides us with an opportunity to understand and educate children. Listen to the child's conversation immediately, the child will not be disappointed, and it will help win the child's trust, so that the child will be willing to tell you everything.

4. Learn to appreciate your children

Junior high school parents should encourage their children to complete their learning tasks independently, not as crutches for their children, and not to let their children rely too much on their parents and elders. Parents should create a more relaxed environment for junior high school students in family education and let their children develop freely. Praise and affirm children's advantages and strengths in time, stimulate children's internal motivation, cultivate children's self-confidence, and make children form good habits of conscious learning.