Children will inevitably encounter various problems in the process of growing up. How to guide children to grow up correctly is a problem that every parent needs to face. This paper will provide some practical suggestions for parents from three aspects: children's emotional management, growth education and family education.

Calmly handle children's emotions.

When the child's emotions are out of control, don't rush to suppress them by beating, which may make the child even more out of control. Try to give the child some privacy and calm him down. Talk to your child gently when he is quiet, and he will be more willing to listen to your advice!

Let the children experience and hit a wall.

The way children solve problems may sometimes be immature, but please don't rush to stop it. On the premise of ensuring safety, let children experience, hit a wall, and then give guidance, they will be more understanding and more willing to accept.

Patiently ask the child's motives.

Children will inevitably make mistakes when they grow up. If parents only know blame, it may make their children more rebellious. When children make mistakes, try to understand them, patiently ask their motives and analyze the consequences of their actions together. In this way, children can not only realize the seriousness of the problem, but also learn how to adjust their emotions and solve problems!