1, don't play hardball with rebellious children. Adolescent children, in order to prove that they have grown up, like to deliberately do some irritating behavior to get rid of their parents' control. You know, adolescent children have a strong sense of independence and self-awareness. At this time, their nature likes to contradict their parents, so the stricter the discipline, the more counterproductive it will be. Then, smart parents must avoid confrontation with adolescent children, and don't confront him. Only by patiently accepting his behavior can he realize the care and love from his parents, thus gradually reducing his rebellious thoughts.

2. Face up to the child's self-awareness. With the enhancement of self-awareness of boys and children aged 18, parents should not impose their own values on them. We should know that although adolescent children's cognitive ability to the world is gradually improving, their understanding of things is still one-sided, so we should not impose our own experience on him, but should patiently help him overcome his own shortcomings.

3. Spend more time with your children. During adolescence, children often feel lonely and helpless. If you don't get the care you deserve at this time, children will often be dissatisfied with reality. Therefore, parents should be close friends of their children at this time. If you have time, you can take part in more activities that he is interested in, such as variety shows, football matches, mountain climbing, tourism and so on. Communicate with him more about his inner feelings during the activity.