Tisch
The problem of educating children has always been that different people have different views. There has always been a saying: there are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no two identical children in the world. There is no fixed model for educating children. I will share our methods of educating children with teachers and parents.
First, pay attention to ideological and moral education and improve children's fine tradition of respecting the elderly and loving the young.
Second, give full play to the exemplary role of parents to help children develop good habits.
Children are very imitative, and many characters and practices are learned and imitated from their parents. Parents are the first teachers of the children. From birth to school, even to middle school, it is the parents who may be in contact with the children the most. They are always imitating their parents' words and deeds. When the child was four years old, we went downtown by bus together. My wife and I are sitting in two seats. I was holding the baby, and then an older man came over. Because we sat in the back, the old man stood in front, and I didn't give up my seat with my daughter in my arms, but my daughter's words deeply touched me. She said, Dad, why don't you give your seat to the old man? Didn't you say you should give up your seat when you saw an older one? I'm really glad that my daughter has become a director. So, I said to my daughter: Let your mother hug you. Dad didn't see it just now, so give your seat to Grandpa now!
Third, pay attention to children's concentration and develop a good habit of being serious and responsible.
Most of them are only children now. With the improvement of living conditions, children are in an absolute central position in the family. When my child was young, I also bought many toys for her, but the child still loves all her toys, because every toy reflects the parents' love for their daughter. She often takes it out to see which one is bought by her father and which one is bought by her mother. Clean it up and put it back after each reading. Once at grandma's house, grandma picked a lot of tender beans and peeled them to make porridge. So, my daughter peeled beans with her mother, and her mother only peeled a little and went to the neighbor's house. As a result, my daughter peeled them all herself. I held my daughter in my arms and praised her. I must finish what I have done. This is a good boy.
Fourth, cultivate children's sense of independence.
Fifth, learn to communicate with children and be their friends.
The most important thing to communicate with children is equality, and everyone longs for respect. Children are no exception. In the process of learning, children will encounter some problems more or less. When she asks you for help or is ready to give up, try not to criticize and complain about the child. Trust your child at all times, give her time, encourage her and encourage her to believe that she has the ability to overcome difficulties. We help her analyze the reasons, find out the problems, inspire and guide her from the side, stimulate her desire to solve the problems, and enjoy the joy after solving the problems with her. I always believe that if we cheat children once now, they will cheat you a hundred times in the future. Listen carefully to your child's different opinions and don't interrupt at will. Don't tell the child what you think until she has finished. Be sure to stand on an equal footing, don't just make condescending demands and give orders, or you will never know the true thoughts and reality of your child again.
This is our simple experience in educating children. I hope that through communication, everyone can improve their ability to educate their children so that every child can grow up healthily and happily!
extreme
My child has been in school for a year, and I have been a parent for a year. Looking back on the past year, I have a lot of experiences and sentiments. After finishing, I have the following ideas and want to share them with you. Please also ask teachers and other parents to correct me.
First of all, we should understand and resolutely implement the requirements of schools and teachers
Since we have chosen school education, we should fully trust the school. Because the school is an educational institution, its educational model and methods have been demonstrated and evaluated by relevant departments. Its requirements for teachers, students and parents should be scientific and practical.
For example, every semester the school will read extracurricular books according to the requirements of different grades. At first, I didn't understand. Is it too early to ask for seven or eight extra-curricular books in grade one? Children may not be able to read and understand? After communicating with the teacher, I learned that there are two purposes. One is to cultivate children's reading habits. The cultivation of reading habits is very important for children's life, because reading is an important way for people to acquire information and knowledge. If children get into the habit of reading 1020 minutes every day, they will benefit for life. The second is to let children know more words and phrases by reading extracurricular books. Because the text in the textbook is limited after all, and children can master it in the teaching process of teachers. Then reading extra-curricular books will make them know more new words and improve their literacy. By reading good essays and essays, children can also accumulate vocabulary. Enrich your vocabulary and lay a good foundation for future writing.
For another example, the school requires children to recite Disciples Rules and read them aloud before class. I didn't understand it at first, and I felt suspicious of following suit. Through my own later reading, I found that it played a great role. It not only makes children understand the truth of being a man, but also gives them a new understanding of being a man. It can be said that it is a multi-pronged measure.
Therefore, the requirements for schools and teachers must be grasped first, and then resolutely implemented.
Second, actively communicate with teachers and children.
Teachers of all subjects will meet with parents at the first time to introduce themselves, and inform parents of communication methods and establish a communication platform. Then parents should make good use of this platform and actively communicate with teachers. The so-called initiative is because teachers in all subjects are teaching in several classes, and they are really busy and hard. I have been a parent of students for a year, and I have a deep understanding of this. Tutoring a child at home is sometimes exhausting, so you can imagine how hard it is for a teacher to manage dozens of students. Therefore, teachers inevitably have neglected or forgotten corners, which requires parents to actively communicate with teachers according to their children's situation. They can use many ways, such as telephone, short message, internet, meeting, etc., but personally, it is best to meet and communicate with their children. Because this way, the teacher can communicate with you according to the specific situation of the child. In addition, it is better in front of children, because the teacher's praise is a great encouragement to them, and the teacher's criticism is also a powerful spur to them.
Communication between parents and children is also very important. Now that children are in the growth stage, their understanding of things and learning of knowledge have just begun. Parents should keep abreast of their children's movements at any time and place. You can communicate with them more during meals and before going to bed. Ask if the school has organized any activities. Did anything interesting happen in the class? We can find some problems from their speeches and exchange views with teachers when necessary. The communication with children should also be proactive. Sometimes you don't talk without asking the child, and sometimes you don't even talk when you ask the child. Because children generally don't take the initiative to communicate with their parents, this requires parents to take the initiative to communicate with their children.
Third, we should cultivate children's good study habits.
Good study habits are the magic weapon for children to learn well, so it is particularly important to cultivate children's study habits. Personally, I think that to cultivate children's good study habits, we can start with doing homework. Suggestion: Before children do their homework, let them get ready, such as stationery and books, including going to the toilet and drinking water. In short, after you start doing your homework, everything that has nothing to do with your study is not allowed. Secondly, ask children to finish their homework within the specified time, and don't let them develop the habit of procrastination. If you don't finish your homework within the specified time, you must ask them to close the booth. Because they didn't finish their homework, the teacher would naturally tidy them up the next day. After several times, they naturally know the stakes. Please believe that the teacher's criticism is n times bigger than the parents' urging and growling! In addition, parents only need to check whether the homework and signature are completed. Let the teacher correct right and wrong, because then the teacher can really know what the child has mastered and what he has not mastered, and then correct it in a targeted manner. Parents must also sign according to the teacher's requirements. If they don't read it, they will sign it. If they ask to see it three times, they will only sign it twice, so they won't dare to cut corners next time. This is also a way to cultivate children's integrity. At the same time, parents are advised to spend as much time with their children when they do their homework. First, they don't know some words in grade one, and they don't know the teacher's homework requirements. You can tell them. The second is to create a good learning atmosphere for children. Imagine that children are doing their homework and parents are watching TV and chatting. How can they study with peace of mind? Parents had better pick up a book or a newspaper and study beside it, which is also a way to improve themselves.
In short, good study habits depend on cultivation, and good study atmosphere depends on creation.
These are some of my experiences as a parent of students in the past year.
One year's experience is hard work, pain, happiness and happiness, to paraphrase a famous saying, pain and happiness!
Tisso
I am an ordinary mother and have no experience in educating children. Over the past few years, I have summed up some experiences and shared them with you.
First of all, we should cultivate good living habits.
Self-care ability mainly includes taking off clothes, shoes and socks, sorting clothes, eating independently, washing face and buttocks. Cultivating children's self-care ability is helpful to cultivate their sense of responsibility, self-confidence and ability to deal with problems, and improve their ability to adapt to the new environment.
Secondly, we should cultivate good study habits.
I have attached great importance to the cultivation of children's study habits since their first grade. The first thing to do when I come home from school every day is to do my homework, and I have been with my children since the beginning. Let's check together after the child finishes writing. Now children can finish their homework independently, but they are still a little careless.
Secondly, pay attention to the cultivation of children's character.
In my opinion, in order to make children become talents, we must first become adults. I have a happy and harmonious family, and my children have grandfathers. My grandmother taught my children to help the elderly before eating and to be filial to them. Give your seat to the old man when you take the bus.
When treating children, our parents should set an example. I think our parents should straighten their seats. We can't stand on top of each other and let our children listen to you. We should be children's good friends. Secondly, we should always get along with children with a positive attitude and a happy mood. No matter how many unhappy things we have, we can't vent them on our children and let them feel that their parents are smiling all the time. We hope our children can grow up healthily and happily!