There has always been a saying called "every generation". No matter whether the elderly are strict with their children or not, they can't help doting on their grandchildren.
It is precisely because the elderly dote on their children that they can easily meet all the requirements of their children, and they often can't help themselves when educating their children, which is inconsistent with the parents' idea of strictly controlling their children.
② The concept of education for the aged is backward.
Although the parents of the older generation have also raised children, the times have already progressed and the concept of parenting has changed with each passing day. Some educational concepts of the elderly are backward.
When the old people educate their children with backward educational concepts, it is easy to conflict with the educational concepts of parents in the new era, and the two sides will have differences.
No matter how unfashionable the old people's educational methods are, their good intentions towards their children remain unchanged. At this time, parents need to spend more time to deal with the contradictions between the two generations because of educating their children.
? What if parents and the elderly disagree on the issue of educating their children? (1) Avoid confrontation.
Some old people have a bad temper, and they are likely to lose their temper in a hurry when they encounter inconsistent educational concepts.
At this time, parents should pay attention to avoid conflicts with the elderly, let alone make a scene with them, so as not to make their popularity worse and set a bad example for their children.
2 let the children stand up.
In the final analysis, both the elderly and parents are thinking of their children wholeheartedly. When there are differences because of educating children, parents may wish to let their children come forward to be "peacemakers."
Parents can let their children tell the elderly which educational concepts are actually too old, and the elderly are willing to constantly improve their educational concepts for their children.
③ Communicate calmly.
Parents and the elderly have good intentions, but there are differences in education methods.
Parents can choose a suitable time to communicate calmly with the elderly and openly discuss the ideas and purposes of educating their children. After the two sides reach an agreement, they can better avoid further contradictions.
To tell you the truth, the old people's educational concept may be backward, but they are also dedicated to the good of their children. Therefore, when there are differences, parents need to use high emotional intelligence to resolve the contradictions between the two generations, so as to educate their children and maintain family harmony.