Love is an important part of a person's life, but it is not the whole of life. A correct understanding of the nature and position of love in life is the basis of establishing a correct view of love, and it is also the premise for young students to steer the boat of love cautiously. Love is supreme and sacred. Our feelings are the most sincere, pure and touching. To love someone is to be responsible for her happy life in the future. Young people have momentum, and they also have momentum in the face of love. When you fall in love with someone, you are like a moth, blinded by feelings, attracted by the beauty and temperament of the opposite sex, dumped by the talent of the other party, and even lost your mind and fell into the whirlpool of that relationship. If we don't handle it well at this time, we may be depressed and degenerate from now on, which will not only affect our current work, but also widen the distance with other colleagues and even affect a person's future. Most young people in their twenties still look naive, full of dreams about life and easy to fall in love. It is not fully mature emotionally and psychologically, and it is easy to be used by some people with ulterior motives, which breeds many sad and hateful stories. In my opinion, in the face of love between men and women, we should first correct our own mentality, establish the proper character of self-respect, self-love, self-improvement and self-respect, never blindly pursue love, nor too hastily pursue love, but distinguish whether our conditions are mature or not. In the face of boys' pursuit, girls should be rational, don't be confused by those sweet words, don't think that paying a lot of love to others will get the reward they deserve, get to know each other better, and don't fall into the trap of some bad elements because of blindly pursuing the feeling of being loved. At the same time, in the process of communication, girls should guide boys to put more energy and thoughts on their work, do their jobs diligently, and strive to reflect their own values. Similarly, boys should rationally face beautiful and holy girls, and never pursue each other in a confused way, let alone judge a book by its cover. Focus on your career, be ambitious, pay more attention to your work, do a career, let yourself settle down first and be responsible for each other's love. This is the best reward for her. Only in this way can you feel more at ease when talking about love. If you don't even have the basic "hardware", blindly pursuing love may be more painful in the face of real life. Perhaps many people will think that both sides are willing to be together, and nothing is more important than loving each other. Life often says: "I don't care about eternity, I only care about having it." I think that in the face of a love, we should take a serious and responsible attitude. Only eternity is the most perfect pursuit of our life. Only in this way can we live more and more happily.