Someone asked him, what should I do if my child still doesn't like to study after returning home?
My father said, "This is the first time for me to learn to be a father. If I still don't love him, he also loves photography. I can also teach him and give him a skill. "
The children's efforts come from their love of watching a movie called Spring in the Cowboy Class. Children have always had a bad image of teenagers, and there are many fights, and they will be severely punished by corporal punishment, and then they will go back and forth. Until a teacher named "Matthew" appeared and saved these children.
Under his novel teaching, let the children know themselves again and see their strengths.
"Spring in the Cowherd Class" says:
"I won't complain, should complain about the children.
Everyone says he is hopeless, but he is not. He is a poor man and needs to be understood. "
In fact, there are many ways to make a child successful, and learning is just one of them. We might as well learn from Mr. Matthew's method, open up a brand-new road for children, a road of his own, and guide children to learn on this road. Instead of forcing children to study under the majesty of their parents.
Children's motivation comes from love.
There is an effort called "you can". The father did not severely criticize the child, but he affirmed the development of the child in every behavior. In fact, whether children's thoughts and behaviors can be adhered to depends largely on the pertinence of parents. It is also the confidence that children can continue to be affirmed on the road of growth.
Let children see the outside world more, which is undoubtedly a kind of insight that will grow in their bones. Children who see more setbacks and more humanity will naturally choose the corresponding path.
When he sees the blue sky outside, he doesn't want to be a sparrow who only cares about his eyes;
When he has seen the mountains and rivers in Wan Li outside, he will not stick to the comfort in front of him;
When he has seen real debauchery, he will not indulge in the present.