Early childhood from 3 to 6 years old is a critical period for children's psychological growth and development. At this time, the child is like a blank sheet of paper. If you give him a good psychological education, he will grow up healthily. If ignored, the opposite is true. Children have great development potential, plasticity and imitation ability. Their thoughts are still immature and their self-awareness is still in the primary stage. They are particularly vulnerable to adverse factors in the surrounding environment and form unhealthy psychology. Teachers and parents need to help children adjust and guide their psychology. Because the child's daily life is in? Kindergarten home? The state of two points and one line, therefore, promoting children's mental health development needs close cooperation from the family. According to the practical work experience, I think that psychological development counseling for children should start with the following points:
First, care for children's mental health with love.
Love is an important condition and necessary environmental factor for children's mental health development. As a kindergarten teacher, we must have a heart that loves children and treat any child with a cordial, peaceful and respectful attitude. I think this is quite important. Because children's psychological and ideological development is not perfect enough, when the teacher speaks to them with sharp words and tone with a straight face, they will be frightened and frightened, and their hearts will be traumatized. We should communicate with children with smiles and friendly words, so that they can feel that their views and ideas have been recognized by others and feel their existence in life. If the child succeeds, he can give praise in time and say:? Are you really good? When they encounter difficulties, they can also give help and encouragement in time and say: I believe you can do it! ? Let the child's heart be full of love, let the child's heart be full of love, so as to be a person with love in his heart.
Second, create a good environment and cultivate children's positive emotions.
Happy mood is an important factor for children's mental health development. In the process of one-day educational activities in kindergartens, we should create a warm, safe, trusting and mutual-help emotional atmosphere for children and establish a harmonious and healthy psychological environment for children. Teachers and children are like relatives, and companions are like friends? Only in this way can we carry out every educational activity smoothly and cultivate children's positive emotions. Children's daily activities are carried out in games. In the game process, adding psychological education can give full play to the role of game activities and achieve educational goals well. For example, in kindergarten, the environment will be colorful and unique, so that children will have a happy mood as soon as they enter the park. The corridor is full of children's own paintings, and the walls depict all kinds of small animals, magical changes of haha mirrors and cheerful music in the morning. Let children be personally infected with happiness in such an environment, keep a happy mood and start a happy life. At the same time, when organizing children's activities, teachers should pay attention to cultivating children's happy mood and interest in activities, let children accept happy emotional experiences, encourage children to communicate with peers and teachers, and know how to respect, cooperate, help and tolerate good communication qualities. Cultivate children's ability to feel love and solve simple problems with their peers in communication. Let children learn to get along with their peers in game activities, enhance their sense of cooperation and promote the development of children's socialization.
Third, listen to children's stories and give encouragement and recognition.
Teachers should take time to communicate with children, understand their psychological status, narrow the distance between them and make them willing to talk to you. When listening to a child, you can hold his hand, look into his eyes and pay attention to what he says. Teachers should feel honored because children trust you and like you before telling you, although some things are meaningless to adults. If the teacher gives ridicule and sarcasm in an indifferent attitude or after listening to the child's story, the child's psychology will be hit and gradually become silent. Therefore, teachers should not only pay attention to listening, but also give timely encouragement and recognition to children's stories so that children can have confidence in themselves.
Fourth, home synchronization, and jointly promote children's mental health growth.
Family is the first environment that children know, and the educational function of family environment will affect the healthy development of children. At present, most parents only attach importance to their children's intellectual investment, but not to good emotional education for their children. For example, some parents even teach their children? Someone hit you and you paid him back twice? . In this way, some children will behave well in kindergarten, but they will lose their temper with their parents and elders at home, which is unreasonable. This requires teachers to help and guide parents to pay attention to their children's mental health. First of all, through parent-teacher conferences, half-day open activities, home-co-education columns, home-school lectures and other forms, parents can understand children's psychological common sense and master the methods and ways of children's healthy psychological education, so as to take favorable measures and cooperate with their homes to do a good job in children's psychological health. Secondly, parents should communicate with their children anytime, anywhere, understand their children's ideological trends, and provide timely guidance and help to the problems found. Thirdly, parents should always pay attention to their words and deeds, and don't quarrel or even fight in front of their children, which will hurt their hearts and develop into two extremes, one is cowardice and helplessness, and the other is violent provocation and attack. Finally, we should take children's catharsis seriously, which is the best way to release pressure, but we should pay attention to guiding them in a positive direction, and truly cooperate with kindergarten education and family education to jointly protect children's mental health.
Five, the implementation of individual education for personalized children.
Children's mental health education must be targeted according to their individual differences in physiology and psychology. In the face of young children, teachers should observe their personality and family environment, as well as the possible causes of psychological problems, and educate them purposefully. There is such a case, the boy Hao Hao cried when he encountered problems, and lost his temper when he heard criticism. According to the teacher's observation, it is found that this phenomenon has a lot to do with family education. At home, no matter who is right or wrong, everyone listens to the children and does not give correct guidance in time. When encountering difficulties, parents have full authority to do everything, leaving no room for children to learn and explore themselves; When children are unhappy, they say a lot of nice words to coax them, which accumulate day by day, leading to children's psychological self-confidence, lack of self-service ability and self-service awareness. In view of this situation, children should be given more space to solve problems independently, thus enhancing their self-confidence.
Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation. Parents and teachers should be good role models for children if they want to grow up healthily. For the sake of children, parents and teachers should attach importance to children's mental health education, cooperate with the family, attach importance to guidance, and let children really grow up physically and mentally. Only in this way can we cultivate a new generation of positive, healthy and progressive people for the motherland.
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