When educating children, you should follow them in your life. In learning, you must let your children follow you, mainly depending on the situation. The reason for this is that children have to prioritize and learning is extremely important. In other aspects of life, parents can give timely guidance and don't interfere too much with their children. As an independent individual, children have also experienced some things. Although not mature enough, but also have their own ideas. Parents can make suggestions, but don't always interfere. Tell children to consider the consequences before making a decision, so as to win their respect. Let's take a closer look at it!

First, do you want to follow the children or follow them?

In life, many parents are relatively strong. When educating children, they always hope that their children can listen to themselves. Parents are not saints when they are also at fault. As parents, I can also understand the feelings of children. Parents used to be children, and they grew up and understood their demands. Sometimes children's requirements are simple, but when children make mistakes, parents should point them out in time and don't indulge them blindly. When children grow up, they are easy to make mistakes. As long as they don't violate the principle, they can follow their children and never give in in their studies.

Second, why is this?

There are two main reasons. The first reason is that learning is too important. Children can't be born to love learning. Many children insist on reading. There are forty or fifty children in a class. It is impossible for every child to love learning. Therefore, don't fantasize that children are gifted, treat them as ordinary children, and study hard will have a serious impact on their later lives. Second, increase children's self-confidence. Following children in life, children also feel that they have independent rights, and they also have the right to refuse unfair things. Simply letting children be honest and obedient will only be suppressed everywhere in life.

In short, children are sometimes unreasonable, and parents should kneel down and talk to their children on an equal footing. Don't treat yourself as an elder and make things difficult for children everywhere.