As a single-parent family, because children are not accompanied and cared for by their mothers, they often break out in adolescence with rebellious, unsociable and taciturn behavior characteristics. Therefore, combined with the psychological characteristics and family environment of adolescent children, I think children should be educated from the following aspects.
1. Understand the daughter's behavior and discover the advantages of the child.
In adolescence, children always like to do something rebellious and do not listen to their parents. At this time, as a father, we must understand the child's behavior and think that this is the performance of the child's growth, not the child's deliberate destruction and deliberate anger on the father. At the same time, we should find the bright spot in children's life, learn to praise children, praise children, so that children will become more and more confident and the relationship between father and daughter will become more and more harmonious.
2. Pay attention to children's physical changes and help them solve their doubts.
When girls enter puberty, their voices will change, their height will become higher, and they will have secondary sexual characteristics. In the face of physical changes, children are sometimes in a state of panic and confusion. At this time, children will inevitably feel scared and helpless without their mothers around.
As a father, at this time, I should share with my child what changes have taken place in adolescence, and tell my child that these changes are normal and are all manifestations of growth. She does not need to worry too much. And share some interesting things about your adolescence with your children, so as to close the distance between you and your children and help them correctly look at these physical changes.
Adolescence is a critical period for children's growth and an important step in their life development. As fathers, they should communicate with their children more, share the physiological changes brought about by their growth, and understand their psychological rebellion more!