Many older children take care of their younger brothers and sisters as a matter of course under the "brainwashing education" of their parents, and even replace them as educators.
Xiaomei is a junior high school student and the big sister at home. She has a five-year-old little brother.
Xiaomei doesn't really like her younger brother, but since she is a member of the family, she should take good care of him and educate him.
One day, my brother was criticized and educated by the kindergarten teacher because he was a "bully" at school and loved to bully other children.
My brother hit someone at school again this time. In desperation, the kindergarten teacher had to ask parents for help and let mom and dad take care of the children.
When the parents answered the phone, the conversation with the teacher was heard by Xiaomei. Xiaomei was particularly angry to know what "good things" her brother had done at school. She gave her brother a sweeping education: "Why did you hit others?"
The younger brother was criticized by his sister, tears streaming down his face, and he was afraid to say anything in the corner. Parents watched their daughter educate their younger brother, but they couldn't get a word in. Finally, they just said, "It's wrong to hit people."
Looking at her daughter's arrogance, parents are both happy and worried: My daughter is better than me in educating her children, so what's the use of me as a parent?
As a member of the family, Dabao should also have a certain say in the family and express his opinions and ideas. When educating Bao Xiao, Dabao should also contribute his own strength.
However, this contribution is mainly based on Dabao's voluntary consciousness. If Dabao is unwilling to attend the education in Bao Xiao, parents should not force their children too much. After all, parenting is their responsibility as parents.
If Dabao is willing to participate in education in Bao Xiao, parents can also let their children express their opinions and opinions.
(1) Urge children to study hard.
As parents of children, we should pay attention to their study. In this society, education is a stepping stone, and most jobs are related to the requirements of education.
Taking care of children's academic performance and urging them to study hard can give them more choices in the future.
2 give children excellent family education.
Excellent parents will give their children excellent family education when educating their children. A well-educated child will not be bullied, nor will he be bullied, because he knows kindness and knows that kindness should be sharp.
(3) Be a role model for children.
As children's parents, in daily life, they should restrain their own behavior, organize their own language and become role models in their children's hearts.
Children will also become excellent people under the role of their parents' role models.
When parents educate their children, they must educate their children in the right way. They can't let children think for themselves. To be a guiding light for children's growth, parents must work harder.
Today's topic: How many children are there in your family? Will your Dabao help educate Bao Xiao?
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