The cause of "egoism" can actually be traced back to the beginning of children's birth, and it is constantly strengthened in kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools, while the university stage only makes it more "exquisite". Reasons for Exquisite Egoism First of all, the family environment of the only child is the family reason for the emergence of Exquisite Egoism. Since the implementation of the one-child policy, the family structure of 8-4-2- 1 has become the main body, and the only child is "loved by thousands".
Three or even four generations of the same family surround a child, and many children's demands, whether reasonable or unreasonable, are doubly satisfied. Growing up in such a pampered environment can easily lead children to be self-centered.
Secondly, "only fraction theory" is the educational reason of "exquisite egoist". In China, every time kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools start school, you can see the crowded scenes at the gates of famous schools, and the surrounding roads are also crowded with people. Parents' anxious faces are sweating like rain. This is not an ordinary school. This is obviously an expectation for their children's future.
Many parents believe that there is no good primary school without a good kindergarten, no good middle school without a good primary school, no good university without a good middle school, no good job without a good university and no success without a good job. It is the score that determines all this.
In some middle schools, for top students, the school not only does not charge tuition and fees, but also provides free suites for parents to accompany. Third, the mercenary social environment is the social reason of "exquisite egoism". When disputes between doctors and patients, food safety, credit crisis and moral confusion flooded the society, the ivory tower of the university was no longer a quiet learning place.
University is a key stage in the formation and solidification of students' world outlook. Teachers are keen to apply for project funds, and they are not too concerned about teaching as their main business, or even perfunctory. Some teachers go too far and regard students as their cheap and high-quality labor. For students, isn't this a living "egoism" textbook? When we go to the society, can we not deepen the students' recognition of "egoism" in the face that our ability to resist is not as good as that of our relationship and our ability to resist is not as good as that of our father? The solution to fine egoism The emergence of fine egoism needs to emphasize the work of social construction, including moral construction, spiritual construction, cultural construction and system construction. By strengthening social construction, we can clean up the realistic soil of exquisite egoism, and then achieve the purpose of transforming society and self.
2. How to evaluate the article "Exquisite Egoists and Ivy Sheep" is actually not bad. It is a reflection on "Excellent Sheep", not the author's own speculation, trying to relate the contents of this book with the life experience of China people with something that China people can understand.
This article is not to say that it is not good to be an exquisite egoist or an excellent sheep, but to show that on the one hand, some of us often criticize exquisite egoists, on the one hand, we envy the western education and class mobility system, on the other hand, we don't really understand the western class mobility system, so it is worth reading to criticize the western education system itself, so we try to tell you about the western "quality education" in this comparative way.
At the end of the article, the reader is asked a question: If you are determined to be a sheep and pretend to be a noble, do you really live a "good" life? This is also the problem of "exquisite egoists".
3. When is exquisite egoism and people-oriented? Some of our universities, including Peking University, are cultivating some' exquisite egoists'. They are highly intelligent, worldly, sophisticated, good at acting, know how to cooperate, and are better at using the system to achieve their goals. Once in power, such people are more harmful than ordinary corrupt officials. "
This statement has been widely circulated on the Internet recently. Although I know that this professor expressed his dissatisfaction with the higher education system, as a college student, he was always shot while lying down.
After thinking about it, I think the problem lies in the expression "exquisite egoist". Originally, people die for money and birds die for food. As an instinct, what is there to criticize about egoism? A gentleman makes money in a right way. Isn't this also a kind of' egoism'?
I have always felt that such moral comments are very problematic. Many experiments and lessons have come to a conclusion that institutional norms are much more effective than moral education. However, in China, there are always moral comments, so why can't anyone speak for the establishment of a perfect, just and good system? To put it bluntly, isn't it afraid of committing the crime of subversion? I am an "egoist", criticizing others for self-interest as an egoist.
In fact, I have a natural fear of altruistic people. There are really some altruists in the university, who voluntarily send short messages about the weather forecast to familiar and unfamiliar people every day. As an information-intensive syndrome patient, it's really annoying.
To put it bluntly, there is nothing wrong with egoism, provided that there is a fair and developed society. Everyone should live a good life, right? Life is out of order, and I think the law is useless.
4. How to evaluate the article "Exquisite Egoists and Ivy Sheep" is actually not bad. It is a reflection on "Excellent Sheep", not the author's own speculation, trying to relate the contents of this book with the life experience of China people with something that China people can understand.
This article is not to say that it is not good to be an exquisite egoist or an excellent sheep, but to show that on the one hand, some of us often criticize the exquisite egoist, on the one hand, we envy the western education and class mobility system, on the other hand, we don't really understand the western class mobility system, so it is worth reading to criticize the western education system itself, so we try to tell you in this comparative way that the western "quality education" asks readers a question at the end of the article: What if? This is also the problem of "exquisite egoists".
5. Help others and benefit yourself in 800 words.
Every morning, when I pass by the path to school, I can always see an old man looking for something by the side of the road with a cane and a big plastic bag.
I'm afraid the old man is over seventy years old, with sunken eyes, wrinkled skin like old bark and few teeth in his mouth. ...
It's already nine winters, and few people get up early. As usual, I went to school along that path with my schoolbag on my back and met her again. Wearing a tattered coat and a pair of wool slippers, she came to a pile of rubbish on the side of the road with crutches, bent down with difficulty and put her hand in.
The crutch reached into the garbage dump and kept turning, looking for any garbage that could be exchanged for money ... I was very moved to see the old man standing in the cold wind. On such a cold day, everyone is hiding in the warm bed, while the old man who should have retired long ago braved the cold and cold wind and picked up junk on the roadside.
One Sunday morning, I went shopping and turned an alley. I saw the old man dragging a big plastic bag full of waste to the recycling station. Suddenly, the old man's plastic bag was broken by something, and all the rubbish and cans were spilled on the road. The old man doesn't seem to have
Found. I was just about to stop her when some naughty boys who were playing nearby ran over and jumped on the garbage, shouting, "Old woman, pick up the garbage and eat it." Hearing this, the old man turned around and drove away the troublemakers, then squatted down to pick up the garbage.
I was very angry that the children bullied the helpless old lady, so I quickly came over and helped the old man pick it up together. While picking me up, I asked her, "Why did you come out to pick up garbage in such a cold day? Isn't your son and daughter-in-law filial to you? " "The old man shook his head and said," No, I came out to pick it up myself. This way of collecting garbage can not only clean the streets, but also exchange some pocket money. "When picking up garbage, the old man thanked me and hobbled away on crutches. In the cold wind, I saw an old figure getting smaller and smaller, and I seemed to see a kind and enthusiastic beating in her chest.
Heart.
I still pass by that path every day when I go to school, and I still see the old man every day. The only difference is that when I see her now, I have no pity in my heart, only deep admiration. Perhaps, it is the old man's egoism that has influenced me.
6. Why are egoists exquisite? Not all egoists are exquisite. An egoist with a low level of education is characterized by rudely seizing the interests of others to satisfy himself. A refined egoist is a highly educated person. They have high IQ and emotional intelligence, but they don't contribute to social welfare, only care about personal interests.
As Qian Liqun pointed out: "Some of our universities, including Peking University, are cultivating some' exquisite egoists', who are highly intelligent, worldly, sophisticated, good at acting, know how to cooperate, and are better at using the system to achieve their goals. Once such people master power, they are more harmful than ordinary corrupt officials. "
From this passage, we can see that exquisite egoists are first of all high IQ, and these people have good academic performance. They are still secular, that is, they have joined the WTO. The purpose of learning all subjects well is to be a good student required by China University, so that they can continue their studies and find a good job after leaving.
"Sophisticated" may mean that these students not only have good academic performance, but also have high emotional intelligence. As for "knowing how to cooperate" and "being good at acting", I still have high emotional intelligence.