Cultivate children's character of speaking and talking, and give them a relaxed family environment; Cultivating children's optimistic and positive attitude, an important performance of optimistic children is to know how to look at things positively; Parents should communicate with their children's hearts and be their friends. They should not be inclined to reprimand, beat and scold, and suppress their emotional expression.

First of all, parents should express their love for their children and cultivate their healthy emotions;

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Then help children express their feelings and teach them to make their own decisions;

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Then affirm the child's emotions and recognize the child's feelings and achievements;

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Finally, don't spoil children too much.

1, cultivate the love of reading

Now is an era of fast food knowledge, and a lot of information is flooding every corner of society. It is also difficult for children to calm down and study hard. But ideas come from books, so reading is an important way to cultivate ideas.

Children who like reading, while feeling the charm of language, will also be nourished by the seeds of thoughts in their hearts. The more books you read, the more you can cultivate your sentiment and think. All this will be transformed into thoughts and emotional intelligence to guide people's behavior.

2. Positive and optimistic parents

Parents are the first teachers in a child's life. In today's social life, parents have to face enormous life pressure. Whether it is work or family, or even children's education, we must bear the relevant pressure.

Often in this difficult time, parents will have some negative emotions. Then when treating children, this kind of emotion will bring negative attitude to children. Over time, negative psychological burden will do great harm to children's growth.

Therefore, no matter what difficulties parents face, they try to be optimistic when they are with their children. Give children positive psychological hints. When children have the ability of self-confidence and optimism, there will be all other better possibilities in life.

3. A relaxed and democratic family

People often say that everything goes well at home. A happy family affects one's most important feelings. In this family harbor, people's happiness and joy will affect their social behavior.

For children, an open and democratic family environment allows them to speak freely and live independently and freely. This relaxed feeling adds a sense of tranquility to children's lives. Being approachable and integrated into the team is an important manifestation of high emotional intelligence, which can make children study, live and work better.