In this case, what rules should parents make for their children? Many parents are stumped by all kinds of questions. Give me a solution today and see how to set rules for children before the age of 6!
You can't take other people's things, but take care of your own things.
Before the age of 6, children's self-identity is just in the primary stage, and it may be difficult to distinguish themselves from others, let alone what is their own and what is others'. And as long as it is something that children like, they will reach out and get it without hesitation, feeling "if you get it, it's mine!"
At this time, parents should help consciously and remember to create self-identity. Help him establish a boundary between himself and others. When children can clearly distinguish themselves from others, parents need to ask their children more questions: "Is this yours?" Let him judge freely and set rules for him.
This kind of rule can help children better distinguish between "you" and "me" and understand that it is either his or someone else's, others can't take things, and "I" must be controlled by me. The difference between these theories is the most important moral and psychological basis, and he will know how to respect others when he grows up.
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At home, mom and dad have always been "children first", and let the children do everything, give them food first and let them choose fresh fruits. But this courtesy of parents will make children more and more self-centered and feel that "mom and dad need to let me go, I am great!" Children who grow up under such conditions are very likely to feel superior, but it is not easy to give friends when they grow up!
Overcoming the bad habits of "little prince" and "princess" can start from parents. Parents can make rules for their children and always abide by the "order" rules. Gradually, help children develop the good habit of "sorting".
This kind of standard can prevent him from forming selfish little faults and make him understand that when someone gets something first, he must learn to think, thus forming a fair way to get along.
Before the age of 6, all kinds of ideas are still in their infancy, which is the best time to educate children to abide by the rules.
During this time, parents can reduce their doting on their children, make strict rules for them, and follow them carefully, so as to shape the habit of children observing standards and being polite from an early age.
Accompanied by parents, children will fall in love with the "mobile game" that abides by the rules and grow up happily in the "mobile game".