1, respect the child's personality. If the child does something right or well, let him know that he should do it and encourage him to do it. Don't exaggerate praise, especially avoid making inappropriate praise in front of everyone. When a child does something wrong or bad, he should make comments and criticisms, even severe criticisms, and take disciplinary measures to let him learn a lesson, but the criticism should also be realistic.

2. When children encounter difficulties, including difficulties in learning knowledge and skills, dealing with some small things in life and some troubles between friends, parents should not do everything at this time. Take a look with concern, give hints and help, make them feel that they can do well and work hard, and get satisfaction from completing the task, thus enhancing their self-confidence.

3. When children are unhappy, including being criticized and wronged, parents should give comfort, encouragement or guidance. Children will regard their parents as bosom friends. When their parents win their trust, they will enhance their self-confidence and realize their abilities.