Honest, sunny, polite, helpful, good living habits (bedridden, independent, not overly attached to parents), curious. As a parent, whether you are a soldier or a man, you must first be able to judge whether a thing or an action is correct, and then guide your child to develop in the right direction. You can't force him to do anything. He is your child, not a slave. He has his way to go, just guide him correctly and don't go astray.