Before I came to America, I was curious that Americans could educate their children well without beating and cursing. In the United States, corporal punishment, verbal humiliation or other ways cause physical or psychological harm to children, and all parties concerned should be punished by law, and parents are no exception.

■ How do Americans educate their children? Expert observation 2:

Americans believe that success not only refers to academic performance, but also includes a wide range of meanings: law-abiding, honesty, courtesy, team spirit, physical and mental health and so on.

■ How do Americans educate their children? Experts focus on three things:

Chinese mothers are children's "amulets". Protecting children's shortcomings and pampering children are mothers' "patents".

However, this is not the case in the United States. Americans believe that in children's early education, mothers have a great influence on their children's life. In America, children should ask their mothers in advance whether they can eat chocolate, play video games and invite their children home, and make a "budget".

■ How do Americans educate their children? Experts see the fourth point: you should apologize for doing something wrong.

At dinner, I sat on the floor where the children of the host family wanted to sit. The little guy started to make trouble: "that's my seat. I want to sit there." The host of the opposite sex hurried over to persuade him, but the little guy still made trouble, and the male host became serious: "Don't listen, go back to your room!" " "The little guy was really stubborn and rushed upstairs in tears. I quickly said, "Never mind, change your position!" The opposite sex host said, "No, it will spoil the children. "Ten minutes later, the little guy went downstairs, and the man asked," Are you ready? " The little guy nodded heavily and bowed his head to apologize to me. At this time, the male host and the opposite sex host put down their tableware and went over to kiss the little guy affectionately.

■ How do Americans educate their children? Expert Aspect 5: American mothers teach their children to cry like this.

Just arrived in Houston, we went to the supermarket to buy daily necessities. There is an American mother holding a little boy about two years old. The little boy sat on the ground with a toy submachine gun and cried, "I want this!" I want this! " Mother coaxed him for a few minutes, as if it didn't work, so she grabbed the little boy's shoulder with both hands and picked him up. She said sternly, "little Peter, look into his mother's eyes and she said no!" " The little boy did not look up. American mother is more severe: "Peter, hold your head up!" " "The little boy slowly raised his head and looked at his mother. A few minutes later, the little boy seemed to read his mother's eyes and handed the toy gun to his mother.

■ How do Americans educate their children? Expert Aspect 6: Children are always the pride of parents.

John, who teaches us, is a divorced man in his forties. He has no other hobbies except his major. He often shows us some childish maps. To be honest, those pictures are just graffiti. Some of them can recognize a bird or a house, but some people have no idea what it is. John, on the other hand, regards it as a treasure and tells us one by one when it is a child's work, which makes people fully feel that children are always the pride of their parents.

■ How do Americans educate their children? Expert Aspect 7: American parents are very concerned that children and children are good friends.

Before returning home, the United States organized us to travel. A team leader's executive seems to be preoccupied and keeps calling his cell phone. We all thought there was something wrong with his family, but later we learned that his son took part in the football match in the community that day. We added another sigh: "What's the matter? Isn't it the children playing? " Even so, the children finally reported their war situation to their father in frustration. After hearing this, the father smiled and comforted: "It's so intense! My baby! Unfortunately, I didn't see it. The opponent is too strong! Next time we come on, we can beat them! "

■ How do Americans educate their children? Expert Aspect 8: American children are not as free as China parents think.

Friends came back from training in Houston, and some friends went to dinner. Some people in their thirties and forties talk about their children somehow. Everyone unanimously asked his friend to talk about how he saw Americans educating their children. The friend said, "American children are not as free and loose as we thought." Their parents gave them many "commandments to clean up the law". "

How do Americans educate their children? Let's take a look at five compulsory courses for American children.

■ The first compulsory course for Americans to educate their children: respect for others.

How do Americans educate their children? In the United States, individuals and their property are sacred and inviolable, so children should be taught to obey the rules from an early age, so as not to let some bad habits harm others when they grow up.

How do Americans educate their children? It is most important for children to learn "please", "I can" and "I can" because they can speak. If they want to get help or other friends' toys and play with others, they need to ask others for advice, and so do their parents.

How do Americans educate their children? Americans will feel uncomfortable with the casual touch of outsiders, and even think it is an infringement. Therefore, children are also taught not to touch other children at will, let alone push others. Rude and hurtful words are absolutely forbidden.

How do Americans educate their children? Don't touch other people's things without permission. This may be strict. When parents find that their children have this tendency, they immediately stop it seriously. "You can't touch other people's property! Moreover, children will be taught to ask their master's permission: "Ask questions well. "After a long time, children will get used to it. Parents and teachers also remind children from time to time to cover their mouths when coughing, to cover their noses when sneezing, not to throw rubbish everywhere, and to apologize for doing something wrong.

■ The second compulsory course of how Americans educate their children: sharing humbly.

Modesty and teamwork spirit are good qualities that Americans pay special attention to advocating, and they also need to be cultivated from an early age. Share toys and playgrounds with other children. "Sharing" and "taking turns" are words that teachers and parents often remind children. Even if there are only two children, you should take turns to line up.

Also, in class, even if the teacher has extra crayons, he will not give them all to the children, but deliberately put a limited number on a table for students to use in turn and learn to share.

■ The third compulsory course for Americans on how to educate their children: Crying is useless.

I used to give my children what they wanted when they cried. But the teacher warned that children will get used to communicating with you by crying, instead of being reasonable calmly. Children will also make such noise in public places, and you will feel embarrassed.

It is often seen that parents seriously say to noisy children "harass me and you can't ask" or "use your words". If children cry to achieve their goals, they may cry for a long time without giving in, and resolutely stop children from using this method. The same is true in class. Therefore, American children seldom cry and learn to be reasonable from an early age.

■ The fourth compulsory course of how Americans educate their children: stick to principles.

How do Americans educate their children? Adults need special wisdom and patience to correct bad behaviors and cultivate good habits, and don't beat or scold children. For example, let the children pick up the toys on the ground and sing "Clean up, clean up, everyone, everywhere" together. Only when the children put away this set of toys can they go on to the next program. At the same time, when you leave your seat, you need to push the chair back to its original position.

How do Americans educate their children? What if the child is not well disciplined? Parents and teachers need to explore effective methods, such as confiscating their favorite toys and not participating in the next activity. Some children "overtime" and let the offenders sit still. Children's self-esteem can be strong, and this punishment is particularly effective. If you don't do things as required at home, you can also make a "pause", stay in a corner or room (of course, always pay attention to the children's movements), end in a few minutes, admit your mistakes and ask them to continue to do things well.

How do Americans educate their children? For some bad habits and serious mistakes that are particularly difficult to change, extreme measures should be taken, such as spanking by thugs to make children feel pain, but they must not cause physical and mental harm (not suitable for use in public places). Of course, there must be clear rewards and punishments. If children behave well or correct mistakes, the praise they get is particularly exaggerated and inspiring.

How do Americans educate their children? After all, children are parents and teachers. If we stick to our principles, they will eventually obey. When children are young, parents will establish prestige so that they will not lose control in the future.

■ The fifth compulsory course for Americans on how to educate their children: lead by example.

How do Americans educate their children? Education begins with babbling. Children, in the final analysis, follow adults, so parents and teachers should set an example. Imagine that a rude adult can bring out an educated child.

How do Americans educate their children? American parents seldom scold their children A father asked a 2-year-old child to take off his coat, and the child did the same. He said "thank you" very seriously. Parents send their children to school and greet them kindly: "Have a nice day!" " I love you! Such kind words can naturally spread in both directions.

How do Americans educate their children? Although children's words and deeds are controlled to a certain extent, they are not rigid. For example, 3 or 4-year-old children attend class, and the teacher encourages every child to participate in the speech. The classroom atmosphere is very active.

How do Americans educate their children? Americans don't fight or scold, but in fact, the children they educate are very disciplined and obey orders. They have relatively free thoughts and strong self-esteem and self-confidence, but there are many restrictions on their words and deeds.

Children's Education Network-Tips on how to educate children to read: After reading the above article, many parents will think like this:

"What you said is good for others. Is it wrong for Americans to educate their children? ! "

"Americans' family values and atmosphere are different from those in China, so they can't compare. " ......

I can only say this: Americans can educate their children in this way, and our parents in China should learn; Many parents in our country have less knowledge of family education than Americans. For the sake of children, we should study more and study hard. Instead of thinking that our parents have given their children enough material, even more than American parents, why are children still worthless? !

Children don't understand our material contribution. They haven't the ability to understand it yet. They just feel that what they have is what they have, and they can't understand what you have done to your children's material. Therefore, parents think that their efforts and gains are not equal, thus losing their psychological balance and being "angry" with their children.

We should love our children in the right way. What children need is not material enjoyment, but spiritual satisfaction, relaxed mood and happy study. If your child learns to be a man when he is very young, he is strong and can face life with strong optimism; Then, one day, he will have his own achievements. Parents should educate their children, not burden them.