★ Understand and accept children. A series of physical and mental changes of children are unexpected and difficult to control. At this time, parents' understanding and acceptance are especially needed. Never see some changes in your child, or shout and panic when you find his abnormal behavior, let alone scold and accuse him. Otherwise, it will only aggravate children's rebellious psychology and increase the gap with their parents.
★ Be a child's friend. The biggest wish of adolescent children is to be respected, independent, treated as adults and treated equally. This requires parents to change their roles and educational concepts, and change one-way education from commanding to equal and exploratory two-way education. From simply caring about children's daily life to guiding children's development and growth, we strive to become children's mentors. According to the survey, more than 90% teenagers will talk to their friends when they encounter difficulties, instead of their parents and teachers. Most children who have successfully passed adolescence have a good family atmosphere and a harmonious relationship between mother and child.