In fact, in a family, what parents need most is to give Dabao a sense of security, let them know that Mom and Dad love themselves the most, and let them know that they are their favorite children.

When children are loved by their parents and feel safe, they will be willing to share their love and accept their loved ones.

Therefore, if parents want a second child, it is best to appease Dabao first and let Dabao feel love before they are willing to love their younger brothers and sisters.

Why is Dabao's heart so resistant to Bauer's arrival?

1, afraid that love will be divided

Children's hearts are very fragile and sensitive. When there is only one child in the family, they can gather their parents' love or spoil their parents' love.

However, after having a second child, Dabao was worried that the love his parents gave him would be divided equally by Bauer. In their subconscious, Bauer has posed a threat to himself, so he doesn't like Bauer.

I'm afraid my parents don't love me.

The reason why many children resist the second child at first is simple. They are afraid that with Bauer, their parents will not love themselves so much and focus on their second child.

Even, someone will say to Dabao, "Mom and Dad don't love you after they have brothers and sisters." This kind of love will make them afraid, so they will resist the second child more and more.