The education method of naughty Xiong Haizi is as follows.
1, pay attention to cultivating children's self-control from an early age.
Boys are active, such as playing football and fighting, which are beneficial to the body and mind. However, we must deal with the relationship between learning and cultural and sports activities. There are also some boys who are impatient, playful, unable to sit still, careless in class, like to make trouble and always fight.
Step 2 reason with your child
In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others. As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories.
Step 3 let the children experience it
If children always don't listen to adults, can parents let their children do it themselves on the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences? Self-inflicted consequences? Taste. Through their own practical experience, children will deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.
Step 4 negotiate with your children
Don't always ask children to live according to the wishes of adults, so not only children are suffering, but even adults are suffering. Children are human beings, and of course they have their own things to do. Therefore, it may be a good idea to negotiate with your child and take a step back. For example, if the child wants to jump on the sofa, but the parents have something to consider, they can let the child jump on the bed in the bedroom, or let him jump later, or try to take the child to the park to jump after the parents have handled the matter.
5. Don't teach children when you are angry.
In a state of extreme anger, parents certainly can't discipline their children in a rational way. Therefore, when parents can't calm down anyway, Mr. Cheng suggested that parents leave the scene temporarily, or divert their attention to other things, such as calling friends to chat and listening to music. When you calm down, talk to your children.
6. Revise expectations for children.
Sometimes parents are really too eager to achieve success, and often take the standards that they can't do (maybe parents think they can do it, but they have never done it! ) ask the child. You know, it is normal for children to be young, active, stubborn and forgetful. If parents really want to make demands on their children, they should also consider their growth. Don't always look at their performance with a magnifying glass.
7. Treat children sincerely
Some parents always like to use a tone of accusation or command when communicating with their children, which often makes it difficult for children to accept. Teacher Cheng believes that the communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can honestly explain their worries or emotions to their children and let them know that his behavior will make you sad, or make you worry and fear. As long as the tone is calm and sincere, you will find that children are willing to understand their parents!
Summary by parents and teachers
In fact, every child has a bright spot, whether it is a well-behaved child or a naughty child. I hope that teachers and friends in kindergarten will not be too subjective and think that naughty children are bad children. Generally speaking, naughty children in kindergartens often lack family education. The doting and pampering of modern families can easily lead to children's defects in this respect, that is, poor self-control and naughty and active. So this has nothing to do with children's nature, nor is it a so-called bad boy. The first thing that should be thought of is whether the child's family education is reasonable and correct.
Therefore, if the kindergarten is too naughty, you must communicate with the parents of these students first. In reality, we find that children who have this kind of situation are often brought up by grandparents. It is precisely because of the disadvantages of this intergenerational education that children are not smart. You know, children gradually become like this because of the connivance of family education, and it is not entirely the child's fault.
As kindergarten teachers, we must not ignore these children, let them feel the equality and care given by teachers, and don't let them behave more indulgently in some aspects. If the teacher adopts a cold coping style, it is actually an evasion of job responsibilities, but also a tolerance for children. In this way, the real fault lies not in children, but in kindergarten teachers as guardians.
Therefore, kindergarten teachers must pay full attention to those naughty children, communicate with parents as much as possible, try to find out the problems of family education, help children realize some mistakes together, help children correct them in a correct and reasonable way, and avoid using cold treatment. This is a kind of harm to children and is also irresponsible for their work.