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Do you know the reason of guilty education?
Many parents will unconsciously complain to their children when educating them, so that children can understand their parents' hard work. But if you talk too much, you will feel guilty and let your children grow up in a guilty education model. This kind of education will make them feel guilty, which is very unfavorable to their growth. Some parents always belittle their children, and they can satisfy their vanity when they see their children being hit hard. They always feel that children obey themselves under pressure and establish the dignity of their parents, so they look dignified. This kind of education is very easy to hurt children's hearts. Why is educating children about guilt actually an emotional kidnapping?

Reasons of Crime Education

1, to satisfy parents' vanity.

Some parents always belittle their children, and they can satisfy their vanity when they see their children being hit hard. They always feel that children obey themselves under pressure and establish the dignity of their parents, so they look dignified. This kind of education is very easy to hurt children's hearts.

2. Parents are used to substituting their children for the times when they grew up.

In fact, in life, we often hear parents always tell their children that if you lived in our time, you would have starved to death, or tell your children about your childhood sufferings. Excessive substitution and narration will make children feel inferior, because today's times are different, and living in the present will make children grow happier.

When educating their children, many parents always habitually suppress their children, transfer them to their own age of growth, belittle their own values, convey to their children the idea that being raised makes their parents feel very hard, and make their children feel guilty from the bottom of their hearts. Such guilt education is very harmful to their physical and mental health development. Parents need to pay attention to the influence of such educational methods on their children, which is an emotional kidnapping.