However, from the actual effect, most parents are not very satisfied with their children's performance, nor are they satisfied with their own education methods, and they feel powerless.
The specific reasons for the above situation include the following aspects:
1, lack of educational theory knowledge.
Educating children to become talents is a professional knowledge. ..... The scientific name of this subject is "pedagogy". ..... That's what school teachers do.
Different from teachers who have studied in school and practiced for many years after work, parents lack theoretical knowledge in educating their children. Because of this, parents will feel powerless when educating their children.
2. Insufficient educational practice.
With theoretical knowledge, you may not be able to achieve practical results in practice.
In the matter of educating children to become talents, parents often lack theoretical knowledge and practice because of their ability problems ... Therefore, they have made great efforts in educating children, but the results are not satisfactory.
3, parents expect too much.
Sometimes, parents feel that the effect of educating their children is not good, not necessarily because their methods are improper, nor because their children are not working hard enough, but because their expectations are too high, they always feel dissatisfied, so they are not satisfied with the way and results of educating their children.
4, parents and children do not communicate enough.
Parents must communicate effectively if they want to educate and guide their children to become talents effectively. ..... But in fact, the communication between parents and children is often poor, which will affect the educational effect of parents on their children and eventually make the result indifferent.
The above reasons are the root cause of the poor effect of parents' education on their children. ..... theory is greater than practice is one of them.