With the development of the training mode, the present parents are very different from their former parents in the way of education. More parents cultivate their children in a soft way, many of which are persuasion and preaching. The previous training mode of "a dutiful son is born under a stick" has also been terminated. As long as parents use rude education methods, they can hear many social reproaches: "Why do you want to hit children?" "It is illegal to hit children" and so on.

Many forms of training are telling families that beating and scolding children will affect their beautiful growth and hurt their hearts. It is such an endless stream of gentle education laws that many families' "dutiful sons" have become "bad children" and families have nowhere to go, but I don't know where this long-troubled problem lies.

1, the effect of bonzi education can not be ignored. It's not a bad thing for children to be beaten. When children grow up, parents should not only give them love, but also let them know how to respect and fear. When children touch the bottom line, parents should punish them, let them remember for a long time and understand their worries and fears. This is the best way to take care of children.

Professor Li Meijin once said that "stick education" did not affect his own psychological growth and progress. This is because a family has fear besides love, first "fear" and then "respect".

For everyone, it is not possible for parents to beat and scold their children at will, but it is not impossible to beat them, depending on the situation. When a child makes a "big mistake" and touches the bottom line of being a man, "stick education" is the best way of education.

2. The child touched the "bottom line" and "stick education" was very useful. If children are favored at home since childhood and have never been beaten at all, they always want to hide in the arms of their parents when they encounter difficulties in adulthood. But how long can parents let him hide? If children have never been scolded by their parents, they will never grow up, and there is no way to face some difficulties and failures independently.

However, many parents complain that the more I hit my children, the more they resist. Therefore, parents must grasp a degree when cultivating their children with sticks. Don't try your best to hit the child, but let the child bear it at the moment of hitting the child. In addition, it is certain that within this tolerance range, our children can learn unforgettable lessons.

Stick training is not simply to hit children, but to communicate effectively with children at the moment of hitting them. Only with a certain degree of certainty in communication can children really remember the lessons, and besides, they can truly admit their mistakes with a certain degree of certainty. Although club training plays a certain role in the cultivation of children, families should grasp the standards well and not be too aggressive, which will do double harm to children's spirit and body.

3. Stick education should be used moderately, and children can't be trained only by this concept, so for you, the so-called stick training is not just hitting children with sticks. For you, parents must understand this problem, that is, to grasp this degree. Only when this degree is right can we be sure that we can really practice the stick effectively, but we can't blindly give our children fists. If a family wants to train excellent children, it can make proper use of this training concept.

Transitional discipline is named "abuse" and transitional connivance is named "pet". When children grow up, it is also time for parents to continue their studies. It is not easy to choose the right balance in the process of raising children. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, please ask parents to establish a system and guidelines for their children. When children break the rules, it is not the best policy to take "stick education" appropriately. One day, children will feel the perfection brought by this training method.