1. Learn to appreciate children
The concept of appreciation education holds that "all good children are boasted". Appreciation can enhance children's self-confidence, children can make continuous progress, and at the same time, it can also enhance the communication between parents and children.
2. Cultivate children's good habits
Parents and children make some rules or plans on the basis of discussion, and implement them from beginning to end to form good behavior habits. Parents should make it clear that in the education of their children, they must combine strict love with strict love and love their children scientifically. In the attitude towards children's education, some parents are too strict with their children and reprimand them for their mistakes; Some parents are obedient to their children's bad behaviors and unreasonable demands, unprincipled accommodation and excessive indulgence will make their children form bad behaviors and habits. You know, love can't replace education, and strict requirements are the embodiment of love. As Rousseau, a French educator, said, "Some people are too strict, while others are too accommodating. Both situations should be avoided. "
3. Cultivate children's sense of responsibility
A sense of responsibility is a manifestation of an enterprise. Let children experience life in housework, learn to care, learn to help, and learn to be a man.
4. Combine long-term and short-term goals.
For children, lofty goals are indispensable, but lofty goals are often distant or unrealistic. More importantly, there should be some short-term goals, which should make children feel that they can achieve and benefit their learning potential.
5. Stimulate children's interest in learning
Parents should be good at capturing learning opportunities in life and let their children practice. If children succeed, they should be rewarded. Of course, spiritual rewards are the main ones, supplemented by material rewards.
6. study with children.
Care and help children's learning with practical actions.
Know more about children's homework and exams at ordinary times. It is important to open your homework and test paper and have a look at it yourself. You can't ask them all at once.
Spend more time with your children when you are free and see how they do their homework. Especially some children who are slow in homework, we should observe more and help him find the root cause.
The purpose of this is to understand the children's learning content, learning progress, and the degree of children's understanding, mastery and application of knowledge. There is a bad phenomenon now, that is, the quality of students' homework is particularly poor on Sunday. I worked hard for a week and formed a good habit of putting soup at a time. It can be seen that children lack management at home on Sunday and put their studies aside.
7. Cultivate children's learning ability
It is necessary to guide children to be good at asking questions and cultivate children to ask "why?" In other words, we should attach importance to both knowledge and intelligence in the learning process. Strengthen the education of children's hard-working spirit. With the increase of grades and learning tasks, children will definitely feel harder than usual. However, from the perspective of a person's life, this kind of effort is the best spiritual wealth for children. Our parents should always educate their children in this respect. Especially when children complain, they should be given psychological counseling in time, reason for them, and let them understand that there will be no great gains without hard work and hardship.
8. Strengthen the cultivation of children's good learning quality.
Be strict with children's study, not to beat and scold, and to have high standards. Nowadays, many students are not unable to do problems in exams, but are not careful enough. You know, being serious is a very important and good learning quality. Therefore, when doing homework at ordinary times, as a parent, once you find that the quality of your homework is not high, you must let him do it again. If you do this at home and at school, he won't have any chance to relax, and good quality is easy to develop.
And the attitude of learning is also very important. Some students can do well according to their abilities, but because of some casual attitudes, it is also harmful to treat learning blindly with the attitude of completing tasks. At the same time, if you find yourself bored, you should do ideological work in time or contact the teacher in time.