1, give the child a "rhythm" stimulus.
Use clever methods to input "short frequency and fast frequency" stimuli to children. Take advantage of children's love of games and competition to give them speed training.
For example, when I get up in the morning, I say to my child, "Let's see who wears clothes the fastest and brushes his teeth quickly ..." When I eat, I say to my child, "Let's see who eats first and who tastes best!" Constantly giving children such reasonable "rhythm" stimulation can effectively promote the establishment of children's speed awareness.
Parents should let their children do it by themselves.
Here, parents should first distinguish between what children can do independently and what needs parents' help. Those who need help can help, and those who can do it independently are determined to let the children do it independently. Help is gentle, and children can't do what they can. At this time, he must resolutely refuse the child's behavior of seeking help.
3. Improve children's interest.
In normal life, we should cultivate more speed and efficiency and more competitive activities. For example, you can play some one-minute games with your children at home: for example, math, Chinese writing and so on. All in order to improve children's interest. At this time, you should pay attention to recording and comparing your child's grades. If you improve, you must praise your child's efforts, so that your interest will be stronger.
Causes of procrastination in children
1, children are naturally retarded, especially children under 7 years old, who are generally retarded. Therefore, children should not be too rushed at their own speed, especially in the first and second grades of primary school, and they should not compare children with the requirements of adults.
2. In daily life, many parents arrange too many substitute teachers, which leads to children's lack of responsibility, which is an important reason for children's procrastination. Because many children procrastinate, thinking that their parents will mop the floor anyway, their parents will help or find a way to finish it, and even their parents will watch, so the speed will be faster and no one will be lazy.
3, the child's procrastination is deliberately caused by no interest. If a child is not interested in what his parents or teachers ask him to do, he is unwilling to participate and will resist by deliberately delaying.